I don't think your understanding my point, if some one you generally don't know is asking do you like dick in a negative manor then yes there the problem not you. but that how ever does not mean The question in general is neggitive in a different context. It's like the word nigger a lot of people think it's a negative no matter what but in reality it's only a negative in a certain context and people who are using it in such a context are the problem not the word it self.