Escorts - Yay or Nay?

[Freighter]

Unlikely. Guys are more attracted to looks/personality as opposed to wealth. They probably find you attractive, or probably think you have a good personality, which they'd find out fairly soon that you are a shallow person anyway and leave you.

Everyone is shallow. Nobody is with someone just for their personality.

Women, on the other hand, prioritize wealth much higher, and are willing to whore themselves out to older guys with money.

Nope.

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I hate to be ignorant here, but maybe the average person in your country cannot afford a decent entertainment budget?

Yeah, they can.

[Deleted]

I've never hired an escort...but I was an escort on Rentboy for a year during a very difficult financial time.

Now I'm too old to do that. Once you move past 25 or so no one would want to hire you.

I am curious - did you find any of your clients attractive?

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What, no it's not.

And you can be both fat and thick. Just depends on distribution.

Thick is just another word for fat.

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He doesn't understand how body shapes work. "Thick" (I refuse to use "thicc" because it's retarded), is what's called a "pear" shape. Wider hips than shoulders, bigger ass than breasts (usually). In any regard, thick isn't obese, but it is overweight.

That is not how people use the word.

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Whereas here Thick = Stupid

[THE Bigzoman]

He doesn't understand how body shapes work. "Thick" (I refuse to use "thicc" because it's retarded), is what's called a "pear" shape. Wider hips than shoulders, bigger ass than breasts (usually). In any regard, thick isn't obese, but it is overweight.

In my defense thicc was a typo if I wrote it.

"Thicky thick" is a reference Ride wit me, an old nelly song.

She can be 18 (18) with an attitude
Or 19, kinda snotty, acting real rude
But as long as you a thicky-thicky-thick girl you know that it's on

With that said, yeah. I've only seen dudes say "thick" to describe hourglass figures.

Sure, there's fat girls that'll say they're thick (some actually are while most aren't), but not enough to change the definition to obese.


I'm not a chubby chaser by any stretch. But you can be overweight (especially if we're going by the medical defintion of overweight) AND attractive.

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Thick is just another word for fat.

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That is not how people use the word.

It's not. It's so not.

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It's not. It's so not.

http://www.thesaurus.com/browse/thick?s=t

[Mistame]

That is not how people use the word.

Yes, it is. It's a colloquial variation, not literal.

With that said, yeah. I've only seen dudes say "thick" to describe hourglass figures.

The issue there is "hourglass", like "curvy", merely refers to someone whose waist is notably smaller than her hips, thus giving her "curves" or an "hourglass" shape. Either of these can range in actual body size from normal to overweight. "Thick" is mostly used to describe those with big butts and thighs, at least from what I've seen. (There's a HUGE Tumblr fetish of girls with gigantic asses and thighs.)

Sure, there's fat girls that'll say they're thick (some actually are while most aren't), but not enough to change the definition to obese.

Meh, they do that with "curvy", too. I like to remind them that "curvy" means more than one curve (round).

[Tommy T]

Had a couple on holiday.
Quite funny really.

Brothel just over the road.

We never said it, we just said "Fancy going across the road?".

Nothing against it personally. I'm all for it. Two consenting adults, agreeing a business deal. Nothing more. Nothing less.

[Freighter]

http://www.thesaurus.com/browse/thick?s=t

https://www.twitch.tv/videos/161042364?t=13m32s

So they're all using it wrong?

[Amerrol]

Everyone is shallow. Nobody is with someone just for their personality.

That's obviously not true. I'd agree that the majority of people place looks quite high on their criteria, myself included, but there are people who will value personality much higher, especially in a long term relationship. Think of people crippled in an accident. If there partner doesn't leave them, then they are with them for reasons other then purely physical ones.

Nope.

Lol, it's a pretty common trope of a young, hot model dating the old, rich guy for his money. If you don't see this then you're just ignorant to common social practices. I'm sure the reverse is true as well, but it's generally still about looks, where the hot, older cougar prowls for younger guys and sleeps with them. It's usually more about sex in the young guys case, not about money.

On a primal level, men look for mates to spread their seed as much as possible to further continue the human race, while women look for a provider that will take care of her and any offspring. This happens to coincide with gold digging whores and guys who are willing to fuck them for some sort of monetary compensation, whether that's an actual prostitute, or just a hot woman looking for a free ride.

I understand you being in denial about being a gold digger, it's not an attractive trait in another human being, and you definitely seem like the type of high maintenance woman that sees flaws in everyone but herself.

[Freighter]

That's obviously not true. I'd agree that the majority of people place looks quite high on their criteria, myself included, but there are people who will value personality much higher, especially in a long term relationship. Think of people crippled in an accident. If there partner doesn't leave them, then they are with them for reasons other then purely physical ones.

Do you honestly think anyone would date her, except fat fetishists, for her personality?

Lol, it's a pretty common trope of a young, hot model dating the old, rich guy for his money.

Had you said some women I would agree but saying women, no, just no.

I understand you being in denial about being a gold digger, it's not an attractive trait in another human being, and you definitely seem like the type of high maintenance woman that sees flaws in everyone but herself.

Yeah, wanting people to have an income similar to yours so you don't have to pay for them is gold digging. The guy would be the one gold digging if they want me to pay their costs for traveling and so on.

I have monthly expenses of around S$4000, give or take some. I want someone who have a similar income to me, I wouldn't want someone who can't live my lifestyle without relying on me to pay for them. They're the gold diggers.

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Do you honestly think anyone would date her, except fat fetishists, for her personality?





Had you said some women I would agree but saying women, no, just no.



Yeah, wanting people to have an income similar to yours so you don't have to pay for them is gold digging. The guy would be the one gold digging if they want me to pay their costs for traveling and so on.
Had you said some women I would agree but saying women, no, just no.

Thank you I was just about to eat

[epLe]

https://www.twitch.tv/videos/161042364?t=13m32s

So they're all using it wrong?

Yes - They are all using thic - and not thick.

thic / thicc = fat ass

[Freighter]

Yes - They are all using thic - and not thick.

thic / thicc = fat ass

What's the difference? Search google for "I like my women thick", how is it not the same?

[hrugner]

No escorts for me personally. I am happy to know that's out there as an option though, I hate to think that people would push themselves into relationships when they really just want to get freaky. It's not legal around here, but that doesn't seem to stop people.

I met a number of prostitutes working at a hotel. The cops didn't want to hear about it unless it was somehow disrupting our business, or they were actively soliciting on our property. They were mostly nice folks, the dudes that drove them up from Seattle to service the college kids here were also pretty cool. There was an old prostitute who would hang out in the lobby and chat us up, nice old lady for the most part, but she really hated other women with this glowing passion. Obviously she had a bit of a problem, but all the others were cool.

[Deleted]

Yes, it is. It's a colloquial variation, not literal.

If you're into thick girls, you're a fat fetishist, pretending the girls you're into aren't really fat, so you can feel better about yourself.

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https://www.twitch.tv/videos/161042364?t=13m32s

So they're all using it wrong?

That girl was fat.

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That's obviously not true. I'd agree that the majority of people place looks quite high on their criteria, myself included, but there are people who will value personality much higher

Some people might value personality higher than looks, but only within a certain range. And it's not like there are no good-looking people with good personalities. If you're a good-looking girl, you can find a good-looking guy with a good personality, so why settle for a bad-looking guy with a good personality?

Think of people crippled in an accident. If there partner doesn't leave them, then they are with them for reasons other then purely physical ones.

If someone's crippled in an accident to the point where they are deformed beyond recognition, totally unattractive and maybe even incapable of having sex, I can guarantee you, even if they are still together, that partner is getting his or her sex from someone else, and the main reason they are still together is probably for monetary reasons and social security. I mean sorry, but no woman masturbates to Stephen Hawking. And a lot of people actually end up leaving their partner for exactly that reason. You can't negotiate attraction.

I remember watching this guy's videos a while ago

https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCmv...6TiAlPg/videos
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1VF2EDHaWRQ

If I remember correctly, his wife divorced him and threw him out of his own house when he became unable to work and to provide because of some health problems.

[Freighter]

That girl was fat.

https://www.instagram.com/rinlinlin/

She's fat? The only people you wouldn't consider fat are people so thin you can see their skeletons outlined clearly?

[therealbowser]

In what way does going to an escort not damage your relationship? That would be the definition of a damaged relationship.

First thought that came to my mind when I read this.

No offense, OP, but are you trying to justify using escorts while in a relationship? Because that's an entirely different topic from "Do you use/like escorts?" I'm just saying.

Either way, if all parties involved -- including your significant other who should be aware and completely accepting of it -- are okay with it, there's no issue with it, socially. Not my thing, but hey, if it's yours more power to you.

[THE Bigzoman]

Yes, it is. It's a colloquial variation, not literal.



The issue there is "hourglass", like "curvy", merely refers to someone whose waist is notably smaller than her hips, thus giving her "curves" or an "hourglass" shape. Either of these can range in actual body size from normal to overweight. "Thick" is mostly used to describe those with big butts and thighs, at least from what I've seen. (There's a HUGE Tumblr fetish of girls with gigantic asses and thighs.)



Meh, they do that with "curvy", too. I like to remind them that "curvy" means more than one curve (round).

Yeah, there's some distinctions between curvy and thick. I've been using both terms interchangeably without realizing it, so I see where the confusion is.

That said, I like both. I mean, someone you might find overweight might be fine for me depending on where the weight, but I'm not a deviantart levels of retarded.

And you're leading a crusade by reminding fat girls what curves are.

[therealbowser]

That girl was fat.

Lol, are you seriously calling that woman fat, or is this a troll/joke? I honestly cannot tell.

PS: She isn't even remotely fat. How you perceive that as being fat is unfathomable to me. Now she might not be super fit and muscular (or anorexic, if that's what you consider healthy for an attractive woman) but she is not even slightly overweight IMO. I'm actually curious what you consider to be normal for women -- could you share an example with us, please?