How 'MeToo' is exposing the scale of sexual abuse

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There's absolutely no way this could in any way be inaccurate...

[Rooflesstoofless]

"This one time a guy I didn't even like told me I was attractive and asked to go on a date with me. Ewwww"

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ME TOO

[schwarzkopf]

There are certainly some physical activities where man perform better

I mentioned nothing about performing better .... that's an inference made by you.

[Gamdwelf]

Oh, and while you're relaying your 101 ways of saying no, you can't risk showing how annoyed you are because that risks a "Why you being such a bitch..." response. You don't want to make them angry.

Whats wrong with being a bitch? Who cares if a person you don't like gets angry?

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Many guys don't care if you say no. It doesn't help if you say you're not interested either, it doesn't help if you'd say you're lesbian either because then you've just not found the right man yet and they're the right man. The most reliable way to actually get rid of them is to lie that you have a boyfriend, they'll leave you alone out of respect for YOUR BOYFRIEND often, not for you.

It's fucked up how so many men just can't respect a no. I've had some who follow me several blocks trying to convince me to give them my number or such. I've had some guys even go so far to try to following me home. I've met a few who have even stood outside public toilets waiting for me to come out for over an hour when I stay inside in an attempt to make them go away.

Gouge their eyes out, kick them into traffic, throat punch them with one of these.

There are all kinds of ways to make people understand if they can't get the hint.

[Kraenen]

Wait is this a measure of solidarity and support or actual rape?

[Freighter]

Gouge their eyes out, kick them into traffic, throat punch them with one of these.

There are all kinds of ways to make people understand if they can't get the hint.

Sounds like a good way to end up in prison and having to pay a lot of money.

[Daneman]

It's simply really. Have you had your intimate boundaries breached without your consent?

What a ridiculous definition. If I have sex with my GF, she tells me to not cum in her but I do it anyways then that's rape or sexual assault? I don't think so.

[Freighter]

What a ridiculous definition. If I have sex with my GF, she tells me to not cum in her but I do it anyways then that's rape or sexual assault? I don't think so.

I'd definitely classify it as that and end the relationship if someone pulled that on me.

[Scottyjscizzle]

So rape is generally o.k. because DNA. Got it.

Where did they say rape is ok? Hell what they addressed wasn't even specific to rape, and is more attuned towards what is viewed as sexual harassment.

[Daneman]

I'd definitely classify it as that and end the relationship if someone pulled that on me.

The guy is supposed to cum in the pussy, it's how nature intended it to be and you say you would end a relationship because a guy does something that's natural? Bitch please.

[shimerra]

The guy is supposed to cum in the pussy, it's how nature intended it to be and you say you would end a relationship because a guy does something that's natural? Bitch please.

I also think it's natural for you not to rape someone. But what the shit to I know. I know for a fact that if your punk ass every tried to pull that with the woman I'm dating she's literally rip your balls off and force you to eat them.

[plantation]

Got a feeling that 90% of the "me too" posters got cat called on their way to work, or maybe someone touched their butt at a club. Something insignificant when compared to ACTUAL rape/sexually abused victims. But then again, in a month no one will care, because that's how these retarded facebook trends work, right?

[Witchblade77]

Got a feeling that 90% of the "me too" posters got cat called on their way to work, or maybe someone touched their butt at a club. Something insignificant when compared to ACTUAL rape/sexually abused victims. But then again, in a month no one will care, because that's how these retarded facebook trends work, right?

god, i love this false equivalency.

just becasue it can always be worse does NOT MAKE IT OK when its minor. minor things add up.

I was talking to my husband earlier today and we kinda realized that its like living with chronic pain. it because so much a part of your life, that its sort of in a background, you just learn to live with it, live around it. except apparently because you learn to live with and around it - it no longer counts. after all sudden pain of a bad injury hurts so much more. so it matters more.

even though chronic pain never EVER goes away, somehow it stops counting, becasue its not severely in your face, and becasue its not as visible - it doesn't count, its ok, that person with chronic pain is just like the one without, that faker... I mean they are walking around, aren't they, what do they have to complain about.

in case it wasn't obvious, above sentence is sarcasm.

the "me too" is not only about severe cases. "me to" is about every day chronic stuff that women AND quite a few man just... live with. day after day after day, while their harassers somehow deserve more protection and validation and enabling. because.. jerks will be jerks or some bullshit. YOU are excusing and enabling harassers. how do you think some of them eventually escalate to rape?

[-aiko-]

I walked up to this guy and demanded to know his name. You know what he told me? "HUGH MUNGUS".

#METOO

[Jessicka]

Whats wrong with being a bitch? Who cares if a person you don't like gets angry?

Because I don’t know them, I don’t know their angry reactions won’t also be violent.

[Independent voter]

god, i love this false equivalency.

just becasue it can always be worse does NOT MAKE IT OK when its minor. minor things add up.

I was talking to my husband earlier today and we kinda realized that its like living with chronic pain. it because so much a part of your life, that its sort of in a background, you just learn to live with it, live around it. except apparently because you learn to live with and around it - it no longer counts. after all sudden pain of a bad injury hurts so much more. so it matters more.

even though chronic pain never EVER goes away, somehow it stops counting, becasue its not severely in your face, and becasue its not as visible - it doesn't count, its ok, that person with chronic pain is just like the one without, that faker... I mean they are walking around, aren't they, what do they have to complain about.

in case it wasn't obvious, above sentence is sarcasm.

the "me too" is not only about severe cases. "me to" is about every day chronic stuff that women AND quite a few man just... live with. day after day after day, while their harassers somehow deserve more protection and validation and enabling. because.. jerks will be jerks or some bullshit. YOU are excusing and enabling harassers. how do you think some of them eventually escalate to rape?

Some time ago talking to the girls at work about sexual harassment. My stance was that women invite this kind of behavior, their stance was that they didn't. I said well if you women were more like Miriam, you wouldn't have problems. Miriam was a religious woman who always dressed very conservatively.

So like the next day Miriam came to see me and said told me she had been the target of sexual harassment on occasion. The first time when she was 14 she was at the mall and walking up the stairs, some middle aged guy reached through the railing and stroked her thigh. It freaked her out.

If Miriam could get harassed anyone can.

[The Oblivion]

I walked up to this guy and demanded to know his name. You know what he told me? "HUGH MUNGUS".

#METOO

One time, i was in a night club, and someone grazed my butt while walking by.

#metoo

[Mormolyce]

It's just a reflection of our sexual dimorphism, girls are different from boys.

Boys are aggressive and would welcome sexual overtures. Men have a hard time understanding why women aren't flattered. Women aren't as aggressive and they don't welcome sexual overtures. It's been this way forever.

It's in the DNA.

Yes I'm speaking in generalities.

I think it's partly genetics and partly cultural.

Also a lot of it has to do with abuse of power, particularly in these kinds of cases.

[Strangebrew]

Me too, i feel like i am being sexually assaulted by men looking at me every time i go outside.
Rape culture everywhere, oppressors everywhere.

[Jessicka]

Yup, she clearly withdrew consent for a specific sexual act and you went on with it. That's sexual assault.

It’s literally sexual abuse, asserting that she has no say in what happens.