More and more men are finding traditional marriage a very one sided contract that heavily favor women and it result in more and more men not wanting to get married. fix that . make prenup a default setting for marriage and maybe more men will be interested in marriage .
This happened to my friend. She kept the baby. He's 2 years old now and doing great. The guy drops her off money each week (not official through the courts).
Turned out the whole reason the relationship was "casual" from his side is that he already has a family and 3 kids.
I don't think this situation is as rare now as it was in the past. Less and less people are getting married (or staying married). There are a lot of single women that still want children.
It's nothing I would be involved with though, my values are still a bit "old school"- I am more like my grandparents than my parents.
very common nowadays - a lot of women think they deserve god know how good bachelor , sleep around while looking for prince instead find a stable man with stable job but maybe average looks - then one day (usually around 30-35 they wake up and realise that men their age choose women that are 20-25 and they all they are left with are men after divorce or men 40 + still with the flaws that disqualified them when they were younger.
Not uncommon for a woman to offer to put the condom on for you. Who said she is a slut? Other than her saying 'I date a lot, but so far no luck.' no one suggested she is sleeping with a bunch of guys. Also is this the first time you have heard of a woman trying to lock a guy down by getting pregnant? It used to be a pretty common practice but now it's not as successful as the woman in question found out.
oh wow look people are being greedy and validating their mentality go figure