This was solved by grouping with realID friends, wasn't it?
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It is not as simple as that.
Starting players have no idea what's going on on a PvP realm.
I didn't have the slightest idea that for example, it meant kill players who stand no chance against you.
I aslo didn't know it meant keep killing the same player over and over and over again the second he comes back to live.