Well I like to look for the positives in peoples posts. Just this topic has had nearly 30000 views, if only they were unique views but sadly not, nevermind. Even so I like to think as you suggest that every time the Noradins and their ilk here glorify the EU they help additional UK citizens convert to Brexitism.
Sorry to hear about your other half and it probably doesn't help to say but with the lowest rate of unemployment in 40 years that nowhere else in Europe is a better place for someone to be made redundant. They won't be unemployed long and the opportunities that exist here can be found nowhere else on this continent.