Also, someone did actually say something earlier than resonates with me.
I've never complimented anyone and got a 'bad' reaction. There must be something beyond what you're saying OP. Maybe it's your demeanor? I dunno'.
Edit: Saying that, I'm not sure I've ever complimented anyone on their appearance within the first hour of meeting them.
I am confused as to how you don't see why women would immediately assume you are trying to get into their pants? The compliment you are giving them is about their appearance and everything in our society has taught women that our looks = sex. When you know nothing about a woman and open with a comment about their looks, it immediately strikes a warning bell in our minds because we have been conditioned by society to believe that we are all men's pleasure objects and all men want is sex. I'm not saying that you are complimenting people for sex, I'm saying that your compliment triggers that thought process in women, regardless of your intent. You can't tell women that they have no right to feel that way. Instead of wondering why women get upset, maybe focus more on why our society has made it okay for women to feel like they are walking targets.
Appreciate your time with friends and family while they're here. Don't wait until they're gone to tell them what they mean to you.
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Hit on women in your own league, if your a 4 hit on women who are 4's.
When you hit on an 9 when you're a 4 it's like telling the 9 girl you think you're worthy of dating her, it's an insult.
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I've never gotten an overly rude response for being nice to a stranger, unless it was due to a complete misunderstanding.
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