Well how do you get experience if someone won't let you get experience. How do you know what people are thinking if you aren't a mind reader?
Seriously, if someone is trying to approach you because they like to be friends that in and of itself isn't about you, but how you react to it for you sure as hell is. I have about 20 friends roughly most of which I have known longer than many have been alive only 3 I met in a specific event.
Now maybe that is the official way at a school or whatever, well then OK!
But me, I simply say no thanks if I am not interested and walk away, and if they harass me then it is about them not me.
Milli Vanilli, Bigger than Elvis
I love how the Op has spent all day trying to convince himself and others that he's not a creeper.
Too bad. Strange females, or any other strangers, do not owe you their time. Make it WORTH them allowing you to get to know them, make sure they feel SAFE doing so. IF you can't figure out how to do that after 13 pages of advice, suck it up, you don't have game and you are scary. Life isn't fair, not everyone wins the gene lottery.
Funny how you sectioned out the first line of my entire post, ignoring what else I said. I specifically mentioned that I am not saying you are after sex, just that women immediate think men who compliment them are after sex. It's not specifically about you. Go back and read the rest of my post. It's very clear. But once again, you ignored the relevant part of a comment (which you have done several times in this thread).
You are right but let me chime in on this here, uh women aren't stupid, they can tell as some suggested what your intentions are, I think in the right setting and place you can say hey I find you cute, attractive or sexy. You might say no that is too forward, but honestly I don't because I think you can go to a certain line and no further to test where the feelers might lead you to go next in terms of what to ask for.
Hey maybe they simply don't like you like that, good thing to know before wasting both of your times.
Walking up and asking would she like to take it up the ass in the bathroom not so much. That isn't honest that is just vulgar
Now maybe you rather be suave and debonair well I guess some people are less upfront about affections, but this goes back to the right time or place.
Someone telling me one f the above there is no time and place, is often a person that isn't compatible with someone who feels there is.
Milli Vanilli, Bigger than Elvis
No but you participated in it big fella and you had something to say.
I am just saying if trying to be friendly and getting to know someone in and of itself makes them a creep, knowing nothing about them and acting accordingly, I say it says as much about YOU to make that judgement. Indifference is ok when it comes to personalities.
Milli Vanilli, Bigger than Elvis
Did you not read half of my post a few back? If the setting is meant to foster social interaction then the barrier to approach me is basically nonexistent. If I’m in a park sitting by myself on a bench then yeah leave me the fuck alone. Unless you’re an actual cute guy or gal.
People don't actually go there to socialize and meet new people. They go their to party with their friends. A lot of them are completely closed down to anyone trying to get into their circle.
But aside from that, a lot of them are just bad environments for talking to girls. Way too loud, people get wasted, I don't drink alcohol and I hate most of the music played at these clubs. I like this