Lore is created by developers to justify their choices. It is whatever they want it to be. Fictional characters have no agency of their own. This is not a difficult concept to grasp.
But if you want to play it by lore, sure, let's go there. Because apparently you have already forgotten that Valewalker Farodin, a
Night Elf, is solely responsible for the Nightborne's salvation through the creation of the Arcan'dor at Shal'Aran, which nobody would've known about without him, and without which the Dusk Lily would've never been able to fight back against Elisande.
But hey, Tyrande made one snide remark so that totally counteracts weeks of story development at Shal'Aran, right?