People seem to forget times the healer or tank really is at fault. I've done it all and I can think of countless time a healer just didn't have a clue what they were doing or a tank just didn't understand tank mechanics. I mean, how are you supposed to feel when a tank that doesn't seem to understand your language doesn't understand the tank mechanics on the first fight of the grimrail depot? People get frustrated. Its just as toxic wasting 4 other people's time as it is voicing your frustration, especially since the game does come with an ignore button but the kick system is consistently buggy.