This is one of many reasons why I like FFXIV more than WoW (besides improved gameplay/crafting)
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And I feel with you on the tank/heal shaming. When everything goes smooth, no one says a thing, maybe a "good job" or two. Once the wipes begin, no one seemingly wants to improve and know if a tact could be used and such. When I first did A4 (Burden normal), I didn't know I was supposed to stay away from the other healer or to soak the balls. Luckily, I got some hints from the co-healer who had done it a few times, saving a lot of wipes.
I feel sorry for the newbie tanks who want to experience the stuff, when the dps (I usually heal) is so trigger happy and want to rush things.