Hi, American citizens do not start wars, it's the government. Americans do not sit around thinking about which countries have oil so that we can invade them. Americans do not go to voting booths to vote on starting wars, or to vote on which countries we should invade. Sorry if you can't handle facts and instead resort to unthought out and meaningless "burns". Yes, we invaded Iraq, and yes many Americans at the time were for it based on lies after the worst attack on our people in recent history, it was not prsented as "we are going to iraq to steal oil".
To the OP, I personally would feel beyond shitty selling my family land just to make a little chunk of change. You say your family has always been pretty poor, so you probably were not the first person who posed this question to themselves. For this land to have been passed down through generations means it was obviously something pretty important to the family, and sure at your age a million dollars sounds nice...but I guarantee you would regret the choice years down the line.