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    Girl question #36276182

    Alright, so I've been talking to this girl for a couple months. We both like each other. I asked her to date me, but she said she gets committed in relationships and she doesn't want to make such a big commitment right now. Anyway, that's just sort of the backstory.

    I was talking to her on the phone tonight and I talked to her for about an hour. She's extremely shy and doesn't talk much so most of the time it's me talking.I'm kind of extroverted, so it usually ends up just fine when we talk. I had to hang up because a friend needed me. I was sort of distracted when I called her back. Keep in mind I was standing outside in the cold when I was talking to her because I wanted some privacy. Anyway, she started talking like she wanted me to talk dirty to her. I said "hmm what am I going to do with you?" in a joking sort of way and she said "well, what are you going to do with me?". And I just derped hard. I started talking about things not even related to the conversation. My question is, do you think she'll think of me as not good enough or manly enough because I derped when she wanted to talk about sex? She texted me after saying she thought it was sweet, but I just feel so emasculated right now >

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    she still wants to hit it.

    no worries.

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    Think we need a Dr Phil megathread soon

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    Phone sex is awkward, you dodged a bullet my friend.

    Just impress her in bed and she'll never question your masculinity again. Be sweet in conversation, a mans man in bed. But not that kind of mans man.
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    Quote Originally Posted by UncleSilas View Post
    Phone sex is awkward, you dodged a bullet my friend.

    Just impress her in bed and she'll never question you masculinity again. Be sweet in conversation, a mans man in bed. But not that kind of mans man.
    Thats some pretty spot on info right there, i got dragged into phone sex once, dam that was akward, and pointless, make sure you do the real deeds in bed and youl be fine

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    Build anticipation over the phone, but full on phone sex is terribly weird, and tends to be far less efficient than shitty porn.
    They can dynamite Devil Reef, but that will bring no relief, Y'ha-nthlei is deeper than they know.

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    Well, from what I read, it appears she likes you. But as I always think, guys that come on to strong is a bit off-putting, so take it slow.

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    You people must have terrible conversation skills because phone sex can be really fun.

    Anyway, I'm going to assume you're still in school so here is my advice: You're a teen, she's a teen, you both need to forget about your raging hormones and focus on school.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Snow White View Post
    You people must have terrible conversation skills because phone sex can be really fun.
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    I would beg to differ, it is awkward and yucky.

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    To be honest, you did a good move in my opinion, whether you meant to or not, to answer that question would get rid of a lot of the chase, excitement etc and we all know quite often the chase is often better than the end product, especially if you've already discussed it at huge length over the phone with her in an exaggerated manor. Maybe you could have said something like 'I guess you'll have to find out' or something along those lines but we're all geniuses in hindsight and after the conversation is over.
    Last edited by Beasty; 2012-01-23 at 01:11 PM.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Snow White View Post
    You people must have terrible conversation skills because phone sex can be really fun.

    Anyway, I'm going to assume you're still in school so here is my advice: You're a teen, she's a teen, you both need to forget about your raging hormones and focus on school.
    Probably the most constructive advice this thread is going to have.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Snow White View Post
    Anyway, I'm going to assume you're still in school so here is my advice: You're a teen, she's a teen, you both need to forget about your raging hormones and focus on school.
    Win is a win

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    Quote Originally Posted by Snow White View Post
    Anyway, I'm going to assume you're still in school so here is my advice: You're a teen, she's a teen, you both need to forget about your raging hormones and focus on school.
    Good advice
    To expand on this in the event that you're not still in school:
    Stop overthinking it.
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    I think you did the right thing op. Enjoy the sex in the coming weeks.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Hinaaja View Post
    Probably the most constructive advice this thread is going to have.
    No, not the most constructive advice in this thread.. If you ever fall for someone, don't just let it go. Doesn't matter your age, your feelings will stay the same until you're over it. The teens are the age to experience this kind of stuff, besides the school. You don't need to pick A or B, you can have both.
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    Guy example: Dude! I had the craziest shit going on today, I was driving a car with chris and Catherina, suddently it goes all white and these small guys scan us!
    Guy response: What the fuck have you been smoking?

    But if you tell your girlfriend the story she'll hear this: bla bla bla bla catherina bla bla bla
    Response: Who's Catherina?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Dumbnut View Post
    No, not the most constructive advice in this thread.. If you ever fall for someone, don't just let it go. Doesn't matter your age, your feelings will stay the same until you're over it. The teens are the age to experience this kind of stuff, besides the school. You don't need to pick A or B, you can have both.
    This. Actually, learning this kind of stuff is more important than mathematics or whatever school subject one is studying. Those people saying "forget the girl, focus on school" clearly have no idea about how important social skills are.

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    go for it dude, you got the green light

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    she still likes you. the more you're coy about that topic the more she'll be all over it.
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    I would actually continue to flirt with a "damn, this could get messy" kinda angle to it. That's not too full on but makes it clear you'd hit it. She can be all confident and it's basically like it's her idea so she won't feel too pressured etc. You definitely got the green light tho yup.
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