Hey, just be thankful you're not gay. It's awkward enough to go up to a straight girl and say "Hey, yo, can I nab a kiss?" And it's even more awkward to do so to a guy who may or may not be gay.
Hey, just be thankful you're not gay. It's awkward enough to go up to a straight girl and say "Hey, yo, can I nab a kiss?" And it's even more awkward to do so to a guy who may or may not be gay.
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If you somehow can feel, or see the friendzone ahead, just run and don't look back.
I am 21 and still single. Purely because 95% of females I know arn't a gamer and all they do is drink which is not my cuppa tea. Shame really been wanting a nice relationship or something to make life a bit more tasty :P
Read this book:
http://www.amazon.com/Game-Penetrati...=29DDS9TDX8EAX
Then profit
I don't know, I think it's pretty obvious when someone wants to kiss you. Most people get touchy when they're into someone, hold eye contact, etc. If you've been talking to someone for a while and there's a lot of physical flirting, she's probably interested. DON'T assume though, unless she makes the first move. If you've been flirting for a while, there's nothing wrong with straight out asking. I love when guys do that, it's 10x more respectful then just assuming and making a really awkward situation for yourself.
Edit:
For the love of god, don't do this. The world has enough douchebags.
#1- Get drunk
#2- Make sure she is drunk
#3- Start with some standards
#4- ?????????????
#5- Nothing happens aim lower
#6- Still nothing? Aim for a whale!
#7- Profit!
These threads always make me die a little inside!
Yeah, go in a club and dance.
I remember this one time, there was this chick and was dancing, she was really hot in one of those dresses, well anyway, she was flirting with me and then she started bumping her ass up to my front part, not sure how to say it, then turned around and kissed me. Why I'm telling you this? Well because the next minute her boyfriend showed up with the drinks for her, so me and my friend just moved away really fast :P
But that's how you can get kissed, get in clubs.
Well, there's no shame in that! I still stand by what I said, but reading people is a learning process, just like anything else. For better or for worse, that means taking risks and dealing with potential rejection, but that's life. If she's already given you her number, chances are she's interested. Granted she might just want to be friends, but there's not much harm in trying light, non-intrusive physical contact (quick brushes against her arm, for example). If she likes you, she'll reciprocate, if not, then back off. Nothing more annoying then a guy who won't take the hint and starts creeping on you. As long as you're willing to get out there and try, you'll learn in time.
When you are to occupied with the thought of this, kissing a girl, it will really block you in getting that. Nerves, acquard silences/quotes, not the right energy.
It (the kiss) will happen, because it 'overcomes' you and you are not going into it with a plan. The less you have it on your mind, the more chance you have in getting it.
When you just go out to have fun and just be open to mingle with girls, not with a 'goal', but just for the conversation or the fun of the company, before you know it there will be a girl with who you have a chemistry. That will just happen, when you force it, it won't happen, because you will stumble and think too much.
It happens to everyone at a certain point, so don't worry and get it of your mind. Also, the friendzone thing, when you mingle with girls, although you shouldnt have the kiss goal in your head blocking, do think about feeling sexy. Just so you project that you are hot and not the friend.
Gl!
Basically, wear a bright pink mankini like me and bitches be flocking!!
so all in all, wait about, until you think you have a chance and go for it?