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    Angry Men! Am I really out of line?

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    Last edited by Trexia; 2012-02-16 at 08:05 AM.

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    Herald of the Titans Ihnasir's Avatar
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    no lol

    just wondering, does he click?

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    Tell him to stop being so clingy, in the NICEST possible way, because you say you love him. There, you got your answer!

    I could give you a much longer version of this as well if you so desire.

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    Sounds like he's controlling and will likely get worse.

    Get out while you can.

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    Pretty much a guy that thinks you should "Get back in the kitchen!"... imo, do as you please... if he loves you back, he'll let you do it. If he's gunna be a controlling dick, time to cut him and go elsewhere. Being trapped in a controlling "relationship" is no good... there will be heated arguments/fights, so GG.

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    He sounds too clingy, so I would say he's being an asshole.

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    No you aren't wrong and he sounds like a nutcase/control freak to me.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Hedleyazg View Post
    No you aren't wrong and he sounds like a nutcase/control freak to me.
    Yeah, if he's getting that upset just because you're going to hang out with your friends, he has problems.

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    haha wow this guy sounds like such a tool! Tell him to back off and let you be you and to stop being a little bitch.

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    Tell him to grow a pair, act like a man and get over whatever abandonment issue bullcrap he has.
    It's like crossing an intersection. There's shit going on all over the place and you don't panic and act like an idiot then do you?

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    he has a mental problem. get rid of him now.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ihnasir View Post
    no lol

    just wondering, does he click?
    Nah he heals by clicking the target's health bar then pressing keybinds.

    I heal using my Naga keys on health bars. <- SINGLE STEP yet he insists he is better. Also I beat him on dps

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    Odd, that you didn't mention the gender of any of the friends...

    I'm not going to say that either of you are in the right or wrong, but if the friends that you're going to hang out with are guys, and if they're marginally attractive/in better shape than him/have a better job than him, maybe he's just jealous and a bit insecure, and pissed off that he can't bring it up in a better way. Same goes with the Facebook crowd. If they're all female friends, then he's just flipping his shit. If they're guys, then he might be getting paranoid.

    Best suggestion? Just sit down and talk with him. Not over the phone, not after work or while gaming with a quick "I'm doing this, are we cool?", but have one of those cliche sit-down conversations where you both go all heart-to-heart, asking why and how it's bothering one another, and work through it calmly.
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    Feels like you're not telling us the whole story and are more or less looking for validation.

    Just out of curiosity, what gender is this friend?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Trexia View Post
    Alright, so last night I tell the boyfriend that I'm planning to go to my friends house for a little get together tomorrow.
    And he flips out saying we should break up and I would rather be spending my time with people other than him. I'm not choosing him or whatever. But it's not like we had plans or anything.

    And this is not the first time something like this has happened...
    It's not like I'm doing this all the time. I talk to him pretty much every night (and not just to say hi, we really talk).
    Any time I want to do something that doesn't involve him he thinks it means I don't love him?
    I even got a reprimand for not being able to spend time with him while I'm at work (only been working here like 3 months so it's a new-ish thing). "I wait for you to finish work and now you dont choose me over hanging out with friends." YOU THINK I WANNA BE AT WORK?

    And these are friends from back in my school days that I hardly ever see. His answer? "You can talk to them on facebook!" -_-

    Do you think I'm out of line and should blow off the friends?

    If not, what can I possibly tell him to make him see things my way and not be so controlling? I do love him a lot, I just want to stop feeling guilty about every little thing I do...

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    well, you didnt really say how much time you do spend with him. it could be that you legitimately dont spend enough time with him, and he is angry about that. you should invite him along with you. now if you do spend a lot of time with him and he is just insecure and clingy, you should reassure him and give him some time to feel more secure about your feelings, and if he continues being insecure then you should eventually break up with him. if he is controlling and just doesnt want you to have any friends but him, then break up with him right away.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Trexia View Post
    Nah he heals by clicking the target's health bar then pressing keybinds.

    I heal using my Naga keys on health bars. <- SINGLE STEP yet he insists he is better. Also I beat him on dps
    Wait he doesn't use mouseover macros?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Guldur View Post
    Tell him to stop being so clingy, in the NICEST possible way, because you say you love him. There, you got your answer!

    I could give you a much longer version of this as well if you so desire.
    This is pretty much what I try to do but when I mention it he just gets worse. Like he starts to nit-pick at everything I've ever done wrong. All I try to tell him is how I feel about things and he just turns it around like I'm attacking him

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bane Falcon View Post
    Odd, that you didn't mention the gender of any of the friends...

    I'm not going to say that either of you are in the right or wrong, but if the friends that you're going to hang out with are guys, and if they're marginally attractive/in better shape than him/have a better job than him, maybe he's just jealous and a bit insecure, and pissed off that he can't bring it up in a better way. Same goes with the Facebook crowd. If they're all female friends, then he's just flipping his shit. If they're guys, then he might be getting paranoid.

    Best suggestion? Just sit down and talk with him. Not over the phone, not after work or while gaming with a quick "I'm doing this, are we cool?", but have one of those cliche sit-down conversations where you both go all heart-to-heart, asking why and how it's bothering one another, and work through it calmly.
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    Sounds very clingy...are you by chance his first gf? If you are that'd explain a lot.

    Just try and wane him off you.

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    Dump him.

    Life is too short to put up with immature, controlling, insecure bullshit. Welcome to early 20's relationships... if you two are older than that, he REALLY has problems.
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