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Last edited by Trexia; 2012-02-16 at 08:05 AM.
Tell him to stop being so clingy, in the NICEST possible way, because you say you love him. There, you got your answer!
I could give you a much longer version of this as well if you so desire.
Sounds like he's controlling and will likely get worse.
Get out while you can.
Pretty much a guy that thinks you should "Get back in the kitchen!"... imo, do as you please... if he loves you back, he'll let you do it. If he's gunna be a controlling dick, time to cut him and go elsewhere. Being trapped in a controlling "relationship" is no good... there will be heated arguments/fights, so GG.
No you aren't wrong and he sounds like a nutcase/control freak to me.
haha wow this guy sounds like such a tool! Tell him to back off and let you be you and to stop being a little bitch.
Tell him to grow a pair, act like a man and get over whatever abandonment issue bullcrap he has.
It's like crossing an intersection. There's shit going on all over the place and you don't panic and act like an idiot then do you?
he has a mental problem. get rid of him now.
Odd, that you didn't mention the gender of any of the friends...
I'm not going to say that either of you are in the right or wrong, but if the friends that you're going to hang out with are guys, and if they're marginally attractive/in better shape than him/have a better job than him, maybe he's just jealous and a bit insecure, and pissed off that he can't bring it up in a better way. Same goes with the Facebook crowd. If they're all female friends, then he's just flipping his shit. If they're guys, then he might be getting paranoid.
Best suggestion? Just sit down and talk with him. Not over the phone, not after work or while gaming with a quick "I'm doing this, are we cool?", but have one of those cliche sit-down conversations where you both go all heart-to-heart, asking why and how it's bothering one another, and work through it calmly.
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Feels like you're not telling us the whole story and are more or less looking for validation.
Just out of curiosity, what gender is this friend?
Originally Posted by Diurdi
well, you didnt really say how much time you do spend with him. it could be that you legitimately dont spend enough time with him, and he is angry about that. you should invite him along with you. now if you do spend a lot of time with him and he is just insecure and clingy, you should reassure him and give him some time to feel more secure about your feelings, and if he continues being insecure then you should eventually break up with him. if he is controlling and just doesnt want you to have any friends but him, then break up with him right away.
Sounds very clingy...are you by chance his first gf? If you are that'd explain a lot.
Just try and wane him off you.
Dump him.
Life is too short to put up with immature, controlling, insecure bullshit. Welcome to early 20's relationships... if you two are older than that, he REALLY has problems.
Last edited by Ordrek; 2012-02-10 at 05:25 AM.