We'll to start off she would have to be slightly damaged or flawed. I don't want someone perfect as I myself am flawed. I don't mind if she has been hurt in the past. I think this is because I understand and realize what it's like to fear trust, emotions and be afraid. However, she would have to be willing to open herself up to those that can uncover her shroud of mystery. Also, she would still have to be a good person willing to help people. Also, shy much like myself yet also knows how to hold a conversation. Should would have to have a deeper reflection about things and the properties of her soul. She would have to be intelligent and slightly dangerous an analogy of playing with sharp knives comes to mind. She would have to have the ability to hide her dark undertones and appear completely normal. Conversely if you play close attention she would give away subtle hints to her deeper personality. Finally she would have to be mostly incontrol of her emotions in all types of situations the precence of being as cool as a cucumber comes to mind.
So that's the girl I believe I would want intelligent, sexy, complicated, secretive, flawed, shy and a little dark. At the same time helpful, loving, careful and understanding. We could appear completely normal to others yet share a beautiful complicated relationship filled with many tripwires and full of passion and love just below the surface. Maybe I want a contradiction? Maybe this type of girl doesn't exist. I have been known to be wrong before maybe this type of girl I describe isn't right for me?
Please share your comments and possibly share what you believe as to be the perfect mate for you.