Originally Posted by
Kasierith
You're a social introvert... its just part of your personality. If you want to get close to a girl, do it through peripheral events... study with a girl you like a lot until you feel comfortable talking to her. Do mutual activities such as clubs. Get to know her on a level you're comfortable with before going on to a close, personal relationship.
Also, don't force yourself to go to night clubs if you don't really want to, everyone is different, and if that kind of scene doesn't appeal to you there's not much that can be done about it.