As the title says, my girlfriend has lately been complaining about my "female friends"(as she so boldly calls them), what can I do to assure her its nothing but friendship?
Nothing. She will not trust or believe you no matter what.
I think everyone else will say the same ^^
<women> be crazy.
They can have 2000+ male friends on facebook, but you even have one female friend they flip their shit.
Don't refer to women as bitches. - Dacien
Last edited by Dacien; 2012-03-14 at 09:46 PM.
Just one question, does she have male friends? If so, there's your defense, otherwise, meet your female friends with her, let her see you guys hanging out together to reassure her its nothing... Unless you're actually banging her, if so... Same thing.
Shouldn`t trust be the most important thing in a relationship?
Lord protector of the Veal
So I suppose all girls are like this?
Guy example: Dude! I had the craziest shit going on today, I was driving a car with chris and Catherina, suddently it goes all white and these small guys scan us!
Guy respondse: What the fuck have you been smoking?
But if you tell your girlfriend the story she'll hear this: bla bla bla bla catherina bla bla bla
Response: Who's Catherina?
I suppose this is quite right
not *all* girls are like this, obv. you're gonna have those girls who are like "derpderp i dont mind" let me tell you...its bullshit, ive be with my wife for 10 years never cheated, never flirted with another women etc. and she STILL raises an eyebrow with me if i say i was talking to a women for longer than 10 mins and not giving directions somewhere. women are naturally selfconcious no matter how much they obnoxiously try not to be. its just something you're gonna have to live with.
doesn't matter if they say they care or not, they care. you'd care if it was flipped around and you can deny it all you want, but you'd care just the same
nothing anyone can do about it, you have to constantly choose what's more important in life and give up the rest.
This is simply a matter of trust..
And to be honest, as people copy their own type of behavoir on what they expect from others, she might be like that...
Try to get your girlfriend to be friends with these other girls. And anytime she brings them up, kiss her and tell her that you've only got eyes for her.
Either way, its a territory thing.
One thing, none of these girls are ex-girlfriends, are they? Cause if they are, that is asking for trouble.
Last edited by IIBloodXLustII; 2012-03-14 at 09:11 PM.
i said the same thing, meant it, then realized i didn't really care in the end.
i've been with my ex gf's recently even though they're in a relationship and guess what they say to their BF/fiancee?
"we're just friends"
if a relationship is worth it, you'll not want to cheat. most of them aren't worth it.
All you can do is rely on her to trust you. As long as you do not give her a reason not to trust you, like by being unfaithful, then she has no reason not to trust you. If she still doesn't trust you, then it's time to move on. A relationship without mutual trust is doomed to fail.
---------- Post added 2012-03-14 at 09:27 PM ----------
I know this because we have discussed how happy we are that we can trust each other this much. (and no, neither of us are undesirable people, we both getting plenty of people interested in us, but love prevails every time)