Originally Posted by
sugarlily
flaky as described by Urban Dictionary, Vocabulary.com & Dictionary.com;
"An unreliable person. A procrastinator. A careless or lazy person. Dishonest and doesn't keep to their word. They'll tell you they're going to do one thing, and never do it. They'll tell you that they'll meet you somewhere, and show up an hour late or don't show up at all. Also spelled "flakey", or "flake" in the noun form."
-She told me she would send me her pictures, but it's been 3 months and she hasn't sent me shit. She's flaky as hell.-
Even when the definition is used as in 'eccentric', or 'oddball' it is NOT meant as a term of endearment or in an affectionate way; it's a slam & a put down.
And you want to broadcast & declare this piss poor trait in defining yourself? What, is this the excuse you use when you "forget" to follow through?
Not even remotely cute.
As for your reply regarding your confidence, well, it sounds about as uncertain, pathetic & doubtful as they come. It pays to learn how to make solid, purposeful decisions that you have thought out & are willing to stand by. You sound like you tip toe through your life & sway whatever way the wind blows.
"I guess so. Maybe. IDK. Sure... I guess I'll try..." blah blah gag
Maybe NOT calling her & having the balls to leave a message yet is a favor to her. Until you outgrow this wishy-washy approach to life, anyway.
As I said in my previous reply, & I gave you solid, thoughtful advice from a woman's POV, I still wish you the best~ <3