Are bi sexual guys hotter in the eyes of women?

[Deleted]

Something i have noticed is that most "jet set" girls you find in clubs tend to go for the metro sexual guys. Those with tight jeans, shirt with miss-colored tie and maybe a hat and some eyeliner, you know the type.

But these types usually only fit in a club/disco environment where the music is so loud that you can't hear them talk. I'd even go so far to say that the metro sexual male is a woman's answer to our(males) blond piggy tail girl with giant boobs, nothing more than a one nighter.

[Itisamuh]

"MMF" doesn't require the men to be bi. I've known girls who fantasized about that kind of thing (supposedly never acted on it though) and not one of them ever thought it meant the men were bi. I suppose an absolute three way would require it, but if it's just a DP type of thing then that can be a completely straight activity.

To more directly answer the thread though, I don't think so. Every straight girl I know wants a straight man, nothing more nothing less. Other bi people might find it attractive, and of course some may like watching two men do stuff (just like many of us like to see lesbians) but that doesn't mean she'd want to date one of them.

[Jurwi]

Bisexual doesn't mean gay it just means crazy lol. And I think some girls find that attractive?

Someone buy this poor bastard a dictionary.

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We'll if a girl knows your bi then it distorts your image to her. To her you may appear as provocative, daring, comfortable with both sexes and down for anything lol.

Yes, or she might think "Gross what a dirty f*****". Do you really think every chick automatically thinks it would be hot to have the same dick that has been plowing mens assholes, have penetrate her too? Like, REALLY?

But more interesting? That could be. There's a difference between attractive and interesting. Just like women don't find gay guys attractive. But they do find them interesting and fun to hang out with. Get me?

[Deleted]

Flamboyantly gay men annoy me, though. Not because they're gay, I just don't much like their personalities.
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I'm gay and I get annoyed by them too, so don't beat yourself up.

I think the reason a bi-sexual man might be more "attractive" in the eyes of a woman, would be that they could both date guys and discuss that as friends. I reckon a woman would feel she could benefit alot from having a close friendship with a male-dating-males.
Some women are automatically attracted to gay men, though, but I suppose that's along the lines of striving to achieve what is impossible.


@ Dirgon, sexual orientation is a better term.

[ishootblanks]

I know that when I am around a girl that is into both sexes she gets much more attractive in my eyes. However, I don't know if it works the same way for girls?

it's basic instinct.. one man can impregnate multiple women.. so the desire to have multiple women compounds on having two object you find desirable interacting in a manner in which you enjoy..

or maybe it's just that two women together is hot..

[Wishblade]

I'll say it's dependant on what kinda girl we're talking about. I know several girls who find homo-/bisexuality for guys disgusting but I also know those who might just like the open'y'ness.

[Asrialol]

Perhaps it has something to do with them not minding to get their.. hands dirty. Perhaps it gives them a bit more "bad boy" stuff, which girls (though some doesn't admit it) likes more than nice guys these days.

However, I wouldn't mind being with a bisexual girl. Not at all. Maybe it goes both ways?

[Stanton Biston]

Doesn't matter. Figure out who the fuck you are and figure out who wants to fuck you, and disregard everything else as noise.

Finding someone to fuck, even on a semi-long term basis is fairly easy. Fuck, it's formulaic. You have to find the person you'd enjoy being around.

Or not-

But whatever you do, you gotta do what makes you the happiest and most satisfied in the long run. You can find girls that get off on peeing on guys and guys that get off getting peed on. Noise man, just ignore the noise.

[pakalolo]

I know that when I am around a girl that is into both sexes she gets much more attractive in my eyes. However, I don't know if it works the same way for girls?

guys find bisexual women more attractive because they tend to associate bisexuality with promiscuity. majority of the time when a female says that she's bisexual the first thought that pops into a guy's mind is "THREESOME!" women (in general) don't think that way so a guy saying he's bisexual doesn't make them any more attractive.

but that's just my 2 cents. /shrug

[Deleted]

Hwarang used to be admired by both men and women suggestive of a bisexual culture, in spite of their military and martial purpose. I don't think that's the way people are conditioned these days, although I do think people have a less pornographic approach to attraction and are attracted to certain individual characteristics that appeal to them- whether it be personality, looks, similarities or opposites, rather than solely the obsession with power through image that advertising seems to instil.

[c1nn4m0n]

In terms of 'hottness' it doesn't make any difference to me.

In terms of suitability for a long term relationship, I would be a little concerned that I couldn't provide all that my partner wanted for me.

[ibnalail]

Been there, done that, passed up buying the t-shirt. I wouldn't ignore a guy because he's bisexual, he'd probably be my best friend in the world. I wouldn't avoid dating another bisexual guy, but nothing about "bisexual" makes me go from "I like this guy" to "OMG, must have now!"

Unless he's "trendy bi". You know, the people who are bisexual for reasons like it ticks off my parents, it freaks out people at school, it turns on the person I'm dating, I get more attention this way, I'm bi when I'm drunk...they can just go sit in a corner somewhere far away from me. I've known faaaar too many people like that and it's a huge turnoff.

[DraconusIX]

A man with female characteristics might have more in common with a woman and they might be less shy initially.

That said, males dont always tolerate bisexual men the best. From incidents I have seen involving people i know, straight males tolerate bisexual males and lesbians a lot worse than they do gay males.

[skrump]

Okay what if a guy is bisexual without sacrificing any masculinity? Basically hes still a complete bro doesn't have female characteristics but still is down to be with both sexes.

Don't think that is even remotely possible, at least not from the viewpoint of other men as men describe masculinity as a domineering presence which is something that gay/bi/metrosexual men lack.

That being said I know a few bisexual men who have been in relationships with women and the women in said relationships tend to be very uneasy about the entire ordeal especially when they see their man checking out other men or catch them looking at man on man porn.

Upon first reading this thread I thought it might be likely that women could be into such things for purely sexual reasons but even in a 3some with 1 women and 2 males I would think the women would prefer both men paying full attention to her.

[Deleted]

This brings to mind a little snippet of my younger days. Back at the age of 13/14 or so, it was all the rage in my circle to make protestations that one was bi, whether male or female, I dunno, it was just the done thing.

Thing is, when it came down to the crunch, most of the guys were horrified by the idea of another guy's junk and vice-versa. Turns out we were all just liars ><

On the topic of whether girls find it hot or not: Sometimes, if they're a young teenager, by the time they get older though, they want a man who exclusively loves pussy.

There are exceptions to everything though.

[Kerath]

I can only comment on my own behalf but no. It does not make a man more or less attractive in my eyes if he is bi.

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Closing this thread. Sexuality is not a subject which is deemed appropriate for discussion on MMO-Champion. The Off-Topic Rules sticky makes that clear.