I don't lurk. I don't even log in to MMO-C much anymore. Dis-associating myself with a few people (no one here posting as of yet), which also keeps me away from other places. I'm always reachable through Steam, Skype and my phone, though.
Comfort sells easier than happiness. Comfort is easy. It requires no effort and no work. Happiness takes effort. It requires being proactive, confronting fears, facing difficult situations, and having unpleasant conversations.