I'm currently in the nation guard in till I am sent off in about 4 month for boot camp then I will finally go active. I am extremely excited for it and am doing my best to succeed in this path(Corpsman and proud!). My question though is about a relationship.
Recently a girl was hired at my work and we chat back and forth, I flirt, I think she flirts back(I'm not a lady man ) and it is all fun and games. We went to a movie after work and she fell asleep half way through the movie, normally that would be discouraging but considering she actually fell asleep on me, full blown cuddle. I was rather encouraged. Now my last relationship ended horribly, so I'm picky about who I picked things up with now but man did it feel good having her out on a date.
Anyways, were going out again to catch some dinner after I get some work, borrowing my dad car as I only have a motorcycle sadly, but I just want to see what random strangers have to say about my situation. Really, is it worth pursuing this? I couldn't even tell you if she liked me or not, we get along but she could just be a flirt like me.
Anyways summary.
Going military, plan to make it a career. Don't want anything to really hold me back to my fullest.
Went on a date with a girl, I like her, I think she likes me back, going again.
Curious as to whether I should keep pursuing this?
I don't expect this girl to be the one, I just want to know whether to pursue with me leaving in 4 month.