1. Reselling games were growing & killing the industry, sure it's not hurting Activision/Blizzard/EA, but smaller studios who publish their own games/have a publisher like Paradox Interactive were continuing to getting molested by the used game market, I agree with you on "Hey can I play with you?" "Nope sorry, you need to buy the game yourself".
2. The only continous payment should be in MMO's, they shouldn't exist in anything else, so I agree on that.
(The $60 + $60 game/DLC thing is only in Call of duty, so you're overkilling there.)
Steam is doing a good thing with it's DRM, since it's the only option in our time, it's the internet, everyone wants to get the very best for free, if you didn't pay $15 for Bastion or $25 for The Walking Dead & just got them off torrents for free, the studious would be GONE, continous growing would kill the PC Gaming, you choose.
It took Skidrow 3 days to make a server emulator for Diablo III, while legit paying customers gets screwed by maintenance, lost achievements & disconnects, this is not how the industry should work. The always-online DRM is way over the top.