I've always avoided pvp like the plague, but recently a friend conned me into an agreement that I would farm up a full set of Ruthless gear and do a few arena matches with him. This isn't my favorite idea ever, but if I decide to do something, I do it right. I've been running BGs when I have time for the last week or so and coming up with a bunch of questions, but his answers aren't all that helpful. So, here I am. I'm a ret paladin, currently around 1800 resilience.
1 - Where do I go for info about stats/forging/etc? Arena junkies had a couple specs, but I can't find stat help and such. Maybe I'm just dumb, but I don't see it.
2 - I'm getting good at cleansing off movement speed debuffs, but I never know what I'm actually cleansing. I just know that I'm slow and/or stopped, so I hit the button. This leads to wasted time as I try to cleanse something I can't, or use GCDs/mana spamming it on something that's reapplied too quickly, and I should just hand of freedom it. What's the best way to get to learn which snare is which? Just plain watch debuffs and spend time learning what the icons are? Addons?
3 - Who the hell am I supposed to kill first? I get on the healer, and my friend yells at me for letting a hunter stand there unmolested and shoot people. I get on the hunter, and I get yelled at for letting the rogue dance around with his legendaries. I stun the rogue so I can get on the healer and/or hunter, and I get yelled at for wasting a stun that I could use to incapacitate the healer. I just can't win, and it's annoying as hell. I get that there isn't a set priority all the time and every situation is different, but there have got to be a few general rules. What are they?
4 - I zone into a BG and someone always mentions that the other team has X number of healers, or they're all the same guild, or some other piece of information that is not readily available from our position in the starting zone. Which addon tells them this?
5 - My friend keeps telling me that I'm doing well because I'm often at the top of the list in damage/killing blows and relatively low on deaths. I feel like the guy who blows the dps out of the water - for the 15 seconds he's alive before the fire he's bathing in kills him. Pretty numbers mean jack if you don't know what you're doing, and I don't. I'm still just blindly slamming buttons and hoping for the best. I thought running BGs would help with this, but it doesn't. It's a gigantic clusterfuck in there, and I'm not really learning anything. Is there a more controlled place to learn, or even a different way to approach BGs that won't degenerate into an 8-way brawl? I generally avoid road fighting and try to chase objectives, but when the entire opposing team is doing the same, it gets messy.