Why do I not get girls?

[Deleted]

Wow tbh the majority of the comments are really insightful, which for mmo champ .... I'm impressed!

As for the ice thing.... What if I dressed up as the lich king like some guy said AND crushed some ice!??!! Cool no?

I joke I joke.

And yes part of the problem is Scotland :P

And no I'm in no way full of myself at all to answer someone else , I wouldn't be having this problem if I was :P

Thanks guys, and girls.

[slime]

You do have an interesting situation. Good looks is like all you need to get any girl talking - sure after that (and depending on drunk level) it comes down to how interesting you are, but if you can just get a convo. going with one - and ask her a few questions about her - im sure they are already sizing you up for the sack. Oh and BTW vanity sucks.

[Kivimetsan]

The key is just to walk up to the girl and be like "hey this is crazy, but my doodle is lonely and he needs some cheering up, care to help"... THEN BAM!!! You get all the bitches. Works for me

[Mexa]

U say u dont make a move on girls and u say u dont go out to get girls, but still you dont understand why u dont get girls.

Some ends are loose here, how about following your friends' methods and actually try something with some girl ?

[Anowyn]

As many people have already said, being shy is not going to help. Even women who will make the first move will quickly be turned away if you seem shy. I didn't believe it until I got over being shy and gained a lot of confidence, but confidence is such a HUGE difference.

As someone who was shy up through about 11th grade, I know it's not easy to just flop over night. One thing about shyness though is it is totally silly once you start getting some confidence. Here's one mindset that helped me when I was struggling to get over shyness: Shyness is pretty much the fear of rejection or judgement. When you're out and about seeing people you don't know and people you will probably never see again, if you don't talk to them, it's pretty much the same thing as being rejected -- you don't get anywhere either way. However, taking the chance will start to make you more comfortable with doing so.

Also, if you want a fling then clubs and bars are good places to look, but if you want something more, those are not really the best places. The thing is, you can meet someone literally anywhere. The bank, the grocery store, a park, a restaurant. It could be customers or employees (obviously not at the park :P).

One final note, don't do the "nice guy" thing (I don't know if you do or not, but shy people often do) and shower women with compliments, or favors. Treat her like a friend you've known for years. Tease her, have fun, tell jokes, and be yourself. Interestingly enough, women who gets compliments regularly actually find it intriguing, usually, if they have to "earn" compliments from you. But realistically, do you go around complimenting your friends all the time? No, we really don't. But if our friend deserves a compliment, we will give them.

So keep these things in mind, and hopefully they help you out! Good luck.

[Jailbuild]

Wow tbh the majority of the comments are really insightful, which for mmo champ .... I'm impressed!

As for the ice thing.... What if I dressed up as the lich king like some guy said AND crushed some ice!??!! Cool no?

I joke I joke.

And yes part of the problem is Scotland :P

And no I'm in no way full of myself at all to answer someone else , I wouldn't be having this problem if I was :P

Thanks guys, and girls.

I'm originally from Scotland also, I was a bouncer/doorman in Glasgow for many years, as well as a student before that. so I have a fair amount of experience when it comes to your issue. My honest advice is just have some balls. I know it might be easier said than done but its all about confidence. I have seen the most pug ugly, bogging, penniless students go home gorgeous women. because they had the balls to do it and the patter to flatter.

First off put the escort thing out your mind you don't need it, choose wisely where you want to go. in Glasgow for example. it is split up by bar and club, if you are into rock/metal go to the Cathouse or the Classic Grand, get yourself a dirty goth ;p for dance music then go to destiny of some of the many stab houses of your choice, to many to list, if you want something a little different anything from Jazz funk, soul or electro maybe the buff club or the sub club. or if you just want to get your "nat king cole" go to a student place, The garage, the union. and don't go with a group of loud boytress morons, go out with people who will lift you up, remember a lot of the time you meet people through other people. having a friend introduce you to someone they know is always a great ice breaker. but above everything else. have some balls. regardless of your style, let yourself go for a few days, so for example you are going to have a night out on Saturday, avoid the shower and shave on thursday/friday aye you might feel mankey but trust me on this one, when Saturday rolls around, and you have a shave shower, put on your nice clothes, a bit of aftershave, you will feel like a million dollars, its a huge confidence boost. when you feel clean and look good. and that conference shows. when you are out and as you said women smile at you. in a club environment, that is an indication. if a women is looking at you smiling at you, go talk to her, ask her to dance. believe it or not, someone looking at you etc is an indication that they are interested in you, ohh my really , just be confident, show some initiative. at the end of the day your going to meet new people, have a dance any maybe some fun at the end of the night if you play your cards right.

and the most important piece of advice I can give you is, Don't put your dick in crazy, or in not such a crude way "avoid the bunny boilers"

top of the list is Stripers followed by coke heads, and self harmer's, aye look out of the scars

[aztr0]

Your friends weren't picky so they went to as many girls as they can and picked up whoever, you were selective, therefore limiting your playing field.

[Deleted]

Go for whales.