Ok people of MMO-C, I have a dilemma and want your input, don't care if its flaming, positive, or negative feedback. With that said, let me continue.
A little background on my friend before we get into this, he is 24 years old, works a minimum wage job at around 35-38 hours per week, and owns his own home. (He doesn't make payments on it, it is his.) Me and one other person pay rent to him, $300 each, and has a girlfriend who is still married with 3 children. He lives in basically a trailer, and has a shitty ass yard he doesn't take care of.
My "friend" makes... bad decisions. Very bad decisions. He dates girls that use him for all the wrong reasons, and it is SO OBVIOUS to everyone except him. In his eyes, he is in the perfect, most beautiful relationship he has ever know. He has sold his truck in the past for 2 shitty ass cars, one for him and the other to his drug shooting stripper girlfriend (no joke on this one, seriously.) A week later he broke up with her and he got fucked.
So now he is dating a 28 year old girl he met online, who is still married, and has 3 children from 2 other daddies. She does work, and she does have a car. She apparently only has 1 final divorce paper to sign before she is officially divorced from her old husband, and left him because he wanted an open relationship. Now she and him actually look through facebook at age appropriate girls and see if they are "worthy" for having threesomes. Yeah, really. And she is "leaving" her husband cause he has an open relationship and she does this shit. His outside of appearance of his property makes him look like trailer trash and all our neighbors make fun of him, and when you try to help him, he has this rebellious attitude, like "I don't care what they think" and just adds on to what people were complaining to him about just to piss them off more.
So to the main point, you cannot help my friend. If you do, he gets offended and just does whatever it is your trying to prevent him to do even more and there is nothing you can do. Like he has these random orange street cones in the front yard, and I told him the neighbors made fun of him, he responded, "I don't give a fuck, I'll go get 30 more cones and spell 'Thank you' on them. What would you do? I am planning on moving out anyways cause he wants me out, but what should I do in the meantime?