Originally Posted by
Kasperio
Try giving him some time. It's really harsh and you're not gonna like me saying this, but usually the best thing to do is let him get some time to himself. IF he's still interrested in a friendship he'll come back automatically, depending on your history together.
Most of the time, people have weird outbursts and reactions to certain things, but if your relationship is meant to dig deep, you'll be able to deal with the time apart easilly and he'll come back again and either demand you excuse some behavior that he's displeased with, or apologize for behaving the way he did and explain why. Trying to mend something is the worst thing you can do. You know the saying "The ball is in his court now"?. Well, he just snatched the ball, and if he wishes to be friends with you, he'll toss it to you eventually.
A sad thing to say for me, and I can imagine sad for you to read, but from a guy who's worked for a teen hotline for suicidals and generally troubled teens, this is what my past experience has taught me.
Edit: Oh, I'll throw you some 'warnings' along aswell btw.
1: Do NOT seek contact with his friends and/or Girlfriend about the situration. Trust me, eventually one will tell him you're inquiring about it, and if he's experiencing some emotional instability, it'll sting very, very hard.
2: I'm only speculating ofcourse, but I think the reason he took away your ability to contact him is because he wishes to have the leverage on communication. I would advice, however, as a precaution that you investigate (WITHOUT Utilizing) if there's other means you can contact him. Chances are, if he WISHES to be contacted, he's subconciously left a door open or a clue somewhere about it and wants you to find it. Analyze your findings and see if it appears as so. If all you come across is "Go to his house" or "Call his phone" then that's far from enough, but do you guys have a personal communication you use exclusively for eachother? Like, secret mail adresses or something of the likes? Chances are, if he REALLY wishes to 'hold the ball' he's aware of those ways of communication and has blocked them aswell. If he wishes contact, they're most likely still open.
3: Respect his behavior. You may not agree that whatever the issue is, this is the best way to handle it, but do NOT try to lecture or display inagreement with it, because he's fully aware of what he's doing, and it's his job to determine weither HE believes it to be right or wrong. It could be exactly what he needs right now for various reasons, so even if you don't think so, be respectful that it's how HE feels.
Hope it helped!