Just buy her a yacht and take her out on it, Just get on with it already!
OT: I really don't think anything is wrong at all. Just give it time, Seems like it should work out.
Just buy her a yacht and take her out on it, Just get on with it already!
OT: I really don't think anything is wrong at all. Just give it time, Seems like it should work out.
If you lack strong social connections, the internet is inhibiting you, not enabling you. To be blunt, those people need to get the hell off the internet and learn to talk to people. The best way to learn is to actually go out there and do it.
The only true goal for any living life form is to procreate - so, yeah, absent of anything the person themselves wants out of life, or what society places on them, their one and only drive is to make babies. More practically, sexual attraction is the basis for the beginning of virtually any kind of relationship with any sort of longevity - the guy thinks that girl is cute (or that guy is cute, if he swings that way) and approaches them based on a base desire to get into their pants.That's a pretty oblivious and ignorant label to cast on every single man in the wold. So you're saying that the only driving goal in any man's life, is sex? What about relationships that start before puberty than?
That doesn't mean that it's the only reason they're approaching them, but it is the foundation for the whole structure. Sex is more than just physical enjoyment, especially in a long-lasting relationship. I don't have any stats to cite offhand, but I'd wager that in relationships where the partners don't engage in sexual activity at all or with low frequency, those relationships have a much greater chance of failing.
I don't consider pre-puberty relationships to be relevant here. If you were very young when you met, you became friends more because you spent a lot of time around each other due to your parents (both sets) being friends with each other. I've been friends with my buddy since we were two - but that makes him more like a brother than a friend because we pretty much grew up together. It's like introducing two kittens from two different parentages together - as those cats grow, they regard each other more as siblings than separate cats.
Starting based off of a need for sex. Even before you know what they look like, you're going to assign them a physical appearance (maybe altered based by what they've said about themselves) and you're going to find that attractive enough to pursue it further. Why else would guys in WoW and similar games go apeshit over a girl being present in the raid or party?Ummm...... relationships starting on wow and eventually leading to marriage say hi?
Yes, perfect. Couldn't have summarized it better myself.
You can't "fix" someone, the sooner you learn that, the easier it'll be.
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I would also recommend changing your mindset. You realize you're being extremely submissive right now, right? Man up.