share the worst thing a person you liked/loved had done to you

[Spectral]

The OP sure comes off as entitled and misogynist.

[Gamdwelf]

My point was mainly that if something never started, you can't be mad that when they did start something it wasn't with you. That would be like if I was lusting after my best friend and were to get angry every time he got with a girl instead of magically becoming attracted to men. It's unreasonable, and if that is the worst thing you've ever had happen to you, you are getting off fantastic.

did you tell him that then say he wasn't looking for anything like that, and then proceed to fuck your best friends? Then it would be a proper comparison.

[Spectral]

My friend who I ended up having more than friendship for... During High School on our senior year, she was dating this guy for some time, on and off. One day she banged this other kid because "he was an equal match for her". Her boyfriend found out, broke the kids kneecap. They break up. She begun talking to me and i grew feelings towards her who were more than friendship. We held hands (not the kid way) when walking through the tunnel and everybody seen us. Now, High School's over and we don't talk as much even though me and her family are close(sometimes I help them by babysitting her mother's 5 year old and 11 year old). Now she is dating this ugly as* dinosaur who is 27 and she is 18. No one likes him. Is it just me or is she a wh*!e?

So, she held hands with you (and not in the kid way!), decided she didn't want you, and hooked up with someone else. Therefore she's a whore? No, you're not entitled to sleep with someone simply because you like them.

[brandonsurge]

Met this girl from Toronto through WoW back in 07-08. Talked it up, whatever, eventually got to the point where she flew down here to visit and chill with me for 2 weeks. Made it "official" before she got here to NY and everything was going great. Lots of sex, lots of cuddling and all those fun thing you do when you're 18 and in a relationship. So, she bought us both Blizzcon tickets (I paid her for mine after she bought them). Damn, I was so excited, I've never been to Blizzcon before. A few days before we were going to get on the plane, she ends up starting a huge argument over how I don't show her enough attention or whatever, so she jets. She literally flew to California and sold MY Blizzcon ticket to some douchebag prot warrior in our guild.

So while she was over there in Cali, she calls me crying and whatever, sobbing and apologizing and the whole nine-yards. Me, being 18 and gullible, fall for it and accept her back with loving arms. Turns out she slept with that douchebag warrior tank while in Cali, then, on her way to NY to make up for the pain she caused me, stopped somewhere in Texas to sleep with ANOTHER guildie, then showed up on my doorstep at 2am the next day crying (again) and begging for forgiveness.

So, me being me, I calmed her down and told her it was alright and that I forgave her. She ended up giving me great make-up sex. Yay me. Then, while she was in the shower (that same night) I called a cab to come pick her up and bring her to the Airport to send her ass home. AND made her pay the cabbie the $90 fee for bringing her that far AND she had to pay for her plane ticket.

Justice.

[Osyrus]

My ex-girlfriend murdered my unborn child.

While this isn't a "one up" story, I'd like to see someone top that. If any of you ever wonder why I'm so cynical and angry (and why the things I post about women are the things I post about women), well...there's your answer right there. That's why.

you friend have yet found the right woman for a reason to heal those wounds.

but mine? not nearly as bad as most of the posters.
totally really liked this guy that was with someone else and i was with someone else.
i realized i was unhappy in my relationship and stopped bringing the best out of my partner so we split up.
he said he was doing the same...

4 months later still nothing has changed.

so i tried to 'get under' someone else- thought it worked- guy was great. nope i totally still want the terrible liar one so i broke the nice guys heart.

yup im an idiot and a piece-o-shit. im in the process of working it out with myself so no more lies and no more hearts broken because im stupid.

[endersblade]

I got a 'Dear John' letter from my fiance while I was in Iraq. 'Nuff said.

[brandonsurge]

I got a 'Dear John' letter from my fiance while I was in Iraq. 'Nuff said.

Oh hey, my fiancee sent me over one of those too while I was on my second tour. The idea of revenge will probably never leave my mind.

[endersblade]

Oh hey, my fiancee sent me over one of those too while I was on my second tour. The idea of revenge will probably never leave my mind.

I unfortunately had to play nicey-nice with her for a loooong time, because after leaving my C-school, I packed all my stuff up at her place >.> Had to wait to get all of it back from her before I could do anything, and by that time, I just didn't care anymore. Blocked her email address, blocked her on facebook, and called it done. She kept the $13,000 rings, too.

[Deleted]

The worst thing someone has ever done to me was last year when my dad yanked me from my bed at around 4 am to beat the crap out of me when my mom told him I was gay.

[brandonsurge]

I unfortunately had to play nicey-nice with her for a loooong time, because after leaving my C-school, I packed all my stuff up at her place >.> Had to wait to get all of it back from her before I could do anything, and by that time, I just didn't care anymore. Blocked her email address, blocked her on facebook, and called it done. She kept the $13,000 rings, too.

The dumb bitch never changed the locks (thought I trained her better than that) so when I got stateside I just went in and took all my things while she was asleep. Didn't leave a note, didn't say a word. She had no idea until the next day when she tried calling my cell, but I changed my number before I went to our apartment. She ended up trying to go to my parents house and persuade them that I was a horrid man and a thief. Good Ol' pops grabbed his shotgun and scared her crazy ass off the property right quick.

Also, I got the rings. Apparently she kept hers on her nightstand when she slept. Silly woman.

[Malifico]

*shrug* being a gay man in a very small town of the southern US I just deal with seeing every single man walk by and knowing that I would never have a chance with any of them no matter what I did, ever. *shrug*

sn: some of these seem a little over-dramatized, eh?

[brandonsurge]

*shrug* being a gay man in a very small town of the southern US I just deal with seeing every single man walk by and knowing that I would never have a chance with any of them no matter what I did, ever. *shrug*

sn: some of these seem a little over-dramatized, eh?

It's all in the way someone describes their story.

[AlisonPrime]

This story has a horrible thing done to me, but it ends with a happy note.

I was dating this guy for a few months and he was horribly abusive. He would punch me, smack me around, make me feel lower than the dirt ontop of a snake's balls. I got pregnant once and he caused me to miscarry. When he found out I miscarried he decided to break up with me.... by shoving me out of a moving car at 40 mph. I ended up shattering my right arm and breaking my leg.

At the emergancy room I was cared for by a beautiful woman named Kara. She would visit me even when she wasn't working which I thought was kind of weird. one day she stopped checking in on me as it seems a doctor reported her behavior and it turned out she had sort of a crush on me. The day I was released she came up to me and asked me out. She was the first person I ever met that showed that much concern for me aside from my parents so I decided to take a chance with someone of the same gender.

We have been together 6 years now, and are engaged to be domestically partnered. Im also pregnant with her child through artificial insemination.

[Kiryia]

So, the story goes...I was in Iraq for my second tour and it was time for mail call. I received a package in the mail from my current girl friend I and was super excited. Upon opening the box I had a good crowd of 8-10 of my buddies around ( I usually got a package every other week from my mom with homemade goodies they like to steal). In the box was the infamous "Jody Letter". Basically she told me that I was never there for her and my "job" was more important than her. I will admit, I had been put on back to back tours and had little time to be home where she was. Ok, so a bad letter. I can handle that. But, why the package? Underneath a bit of packing foam was a thumb drive and numerous pictures of my now ex-girlfriend banging some fresh private right out of basic training and the thumb drive, well it was a video to compliment said pictures.

Now, I am not one who is quick to anger. Hell, I wasn't even mad when I got shot by an enemy combatant. But this compiled with the fact that all my friends had witnessed this kind of pushed me over the edge....I wanted revenge. So for about three days as I simmered on my new found hatred me and my buddies contemplated a very lucrative scheme to get back at her, in a non violent way of course. I decided to take said video and send it off to nearly half a dozen porn agencies with a full bio and formal work request sheet from my girl friend. Also, the video and pictures were uploaded to numerous exgf/gf porn sites via the help of a few buddies. And finally, about 10 of my buddies and I logged onto an untold amount of dirty chat sites and lest suggestive comments with my ex-girlfriends phone number (call for a good time).

The end result, I have no idea on my girl friends part. She is forever on the interwebs, she had to get a new phone number from all the spam calls, and apparently one of the porn agencies called her house and her dad answered while she wasn't there. The part that is kinda of messed up was the soldier who was banging my ex-girlfriend was kicked out of the Army because his Commanding Officer caught wind of the sex tape and now that it was on the internet it was basically a punishable offense and he no longer is serving in the military.

[galaxiah]

We have been together 6 years now, and are engaged to be domestically partnered. Im also pregnant with her child through artificial insemination.

I'm happy for you! But sorry you had to go through that abuse. I hope you and your soon to be wife live happy lives.

[SvetlanaSvetlana]

I wouldn't say that I was completely wronged, but one of the only person I've ever felt anything for turned out to be a self-centered bitch. As a result, I veered away, and we broke up.

It was a mutual and clean break-up, but we didn't get super-duper serious in the first place. She still wanted to be friends, but her selfishness and neurotic behavior caused me to be weary. As a result, I decided that there was no room in my heart for forgiveness, and I stopped speaking to her.

She still tries to move towards being friends again, sending me Facebook requests, and trying to call me, but I ignore them. I don't want to be the bigger person, and I don't want to resolve my bitter feelings towards her. I could live the rest of my life without speaking to her again. Plus I moved away and started a new life in another state, and I don't feel like resuming connections, especially long-distance ones.

[bekilrwale]

I've been pretty lucky so far as significant others go, and have only ever broken up because we both agreed that it wasn't really working. The worst thing is when a girl I liked called me stupid and ignorant. Not anything really, but sure hurt at the time=[.

[Goatfish]

did you tell him that then say he wasn't looking for anything like that, and then proceed to fuck your best friends? Then it would be a proper comparison.

So you were told that she didn't want to fuck you, and ended up fucking your friends instead. Your point being? You're mad that you didn't get what you want, it's like a little kid crying over a lost toy. My first girlfriend left me to sleep with my friends and guess what? I gave no shits. That relationship was ended, she could do what she wanted, my friends could do what they wanted. It's not my place to tell others how to live their life. Now if they were trying or succeeding in getting in her pants while I was with her, that's a different story. But if you are told no, or never had something going on, you have no right to be mad that your crush got with someone else instead of you. It's incredibly immature. I mean like on the level of facebook stalking your ex so you can be mad every time they post a picture having fun immature.

[Gamdwelf]

So you were told that she didn't want to fuck you, and ended up fucking your friends instead. Your point being? You're mad that you didn't get what you want, it's like a little kid crying over a lost toy. My first girlfriend left me to sleep with my friends and guess what? I gave no shits. That relationship was ended, she could do what she wanted, my friends could do what they wanted. It's not my place to tell others how to live their life. Now if they were trying or succeeding in getting in her pants while I was with her, that's a different story. But if you are told no, or never had something going on, you have no right to be mad that your crush got with someone else instead of you. It's incredibly immature. I mean like on the level of facebook stalking your ex so you can be mad every time they post a picture having fun immature.

Somebody has reading comprehension problems, she told me she was not looking for a relationship, which is totally fine.

She then tried to get in a relationship with two of my roomates, she didn't just try to fuck them, she wanted to be their girlfriend.

[Goatfish]

Somebody has reading comprehension problems, she told me she was not looking for a relationship, which is totally fine.

She then tried to get in a relationship with two of my roomates, she didn't just try to fuck them, she wanted to be their girlfriend.

And it was any of your business how? You got denied, she went with what she wanted, you got pissed because she went with what she wanted instead of taking you. Where is the problem here? I'll give you a hint, it isn't with her. I'm not sure how many other ways I can repeat that, so I'll just leave it at that. Grow up and accept it or not, it's really none of my business either, but it will save you a lot of trouble in the future.