I think about WoW-characters while I'm with my girlfriend - How do I tell her?

[Filed]

masturbate. furiously.

that's what i always say. and it's what I always do when I can't stop thinking about bitches.

works great for me.

I'd have to go with this, it would be a way to seperate your time thinking of WoW characters and sexy time with your girlfriend.

I'm curious as to how you didn't come accross porn to be honest, but I guess thats another story. I assume you must have knew about it at some point during the time where you "had no life".

Anyway back to the point - Since you feel weird while your lovemaking, you need to realise that it will effect the way you treat her, I'm not talking in the mechanical sense, but in how you feel. You will come accross slightly awkward or held back to her if you have had "normal" lovemaking for a while before you started thinking about it again. I think what Gandrake suggested is actually good advice, as odd as it sounds.

But yeah. Don't tell her. Don't even hint at it. Its not lying, I believe it's something you'll get over with time, try experimenting with sex more to engage you, specifically more face-to-face positions; you cant help but look at her and just enjoy the moment for what it actually is then. The honeymoon period is the best anyway.

As long as she can take your mind off it before sex and keeps your mind off it during, it should be more enjoyable for both parties.
It may take some, uh, "social engineering" to get her to change how she comes accross during sexytime though.

But hey, maybe I'm just missing the point.

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It's a perfectly harmless and normal fantasy, assuming the characters in it weren't Worgen or Tauren of course

Don't worry about it, a great many people have far weirder fantasies.

[Tesclo]

It's a perfectly harmless and normal fantasy, assuming the characters in it weren't Worgen or Tauren of course

Don't worry about it, a great many people have far weirder fantasies.

Like that one time with the lamp.

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Like that one time with the lamp.

who did it with a lamp? xD

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I'd have to go with this, it would be a way to seperate your time thinking of WoW characters and sexy time with your girlfriend.

I'm curious as to how you didn't come accross porn to be honest, but I guess thats another story. I assume you must have knew about it at some point during the time where you "had no life".

I've thought about that too. My only explanation is that I simply have good imagination and thus never felt a need for porn. It doesn't turn me on much either.

[Filed]

I've thought about that too. My only explanation is that I simply have good imagination and thus never felt a need for porn. It doesn't turn me on much either.

There's a lot out there, something must tickle your pickle. From the ammount of stuff I've seen only a few percent actually turns me on; it might be worth your time experimenting with different types of porn. You cant really lose out by doing this, if anything it will broaden your influence in the bedroom and you might even find something that turns you on more.

[Rakoth]

Honestly, it's just a phase. Don't mention it and see if it will pass. If it doesn't pass quickly, then I would really think of leaving wow behind.

Now, if it's affecting the duration and her enjoyment of it, I would try my hardest not to indulge until she is ready. It's very important to take care of her before you finish off yourself, especially in that way.

Try to figure out how you can reconcile the two. Try to figure out why she isn't doing it for you anymore and why you are getting bored. Is it always the same position? Always the same place? Try see what she likes in toys and stuff. Be creative.

[Himora]

no shame in that. i keep pretending my boyfriend is gnome when we are in bed.. for obvious size issues

[Sunshine]

Thanks to those who have kept a productive discussion so far... but this is not the kind of discussion we allow here.