is it gay for two men to sleep in the same bed?

[Ron Burgundy]

i'm not talking about sex. i'm strictly talking about sleeping together.








i have

[Skyforge1]

i'm not talking about sex. i'm strictly talking about sleeping together.








i have

serious question?

no

[Gheld]

Discussions about sexuality are prohibited.

[Aeluron Lightsong]

If so then I must be gay....wait I'm not. >_> Seriously no it's not unless it involved other activities then no.

[Ron Burgundy]

Discussions about sexuality are prohibited.

this discussion isn't about sex, it's about sleeping

[Brendanb]

Why would it matter anyways

[haxartus]

I think only people who are insecure in their sexuality ask questions like "is it gay".
Nothing personal.

[Saphyron]

As long you just sleep.

[Deleted]

Guess Ive been gay alot then if sleeping in the same bed with a male is being gay.
Oh and with alot of different people too, damn!

On serious note, wtf? Why would it be gay?

[zjadow]

I think only people who are insecure in their sexuality ask questions like "is it gay".
Nothing personal.

Totally agree here. If you are secure in your own sexuality and nothing sexual happens; why would you even wonder about if it's considered "gay" by other people.

[TEHPALLYTANK]

I want to be sarcastic and say yes then give some snarky elaboration but I will resist! No, it isn't.

[Ricen]

No? Its not gay at all, its 2 humans sleeping?... This is a little childish.

[dokilar]

some people might say thats "gay" but no just cause two guys sleep in the same bed it doesnt make them gay. ive done it before with friends, my brother and my dad.

for instance i had to drive from washington state to kentucky to bring my dad home from where he was living with my brother when he was stationed at ft. lewis. the hotel we stopped at for the night only had one bed. after driving for about 14 hours a nice bed to lay on was a warm welcome and i sure as hell wasnt going to sleep on the floor and then drive another 14 hours the next day.

like i said, ive done the same thing with friends and my brother.

[Diraction]

Kind of a dumb question, like asking if it's "straight" to watch television. The question doesn't make any sense. The two people in question will have a sexual orientation (whatever it is) but situations don't have a sexual orientation.

[anveena]

No it's not. Anyone saying such is probably still in high school.

[orderschvank]

the question might as well be is it gay for 2 guys to talk to each other, either way its a stupid question.

[Agent Mercury]

You can answer this for yourself and if you need someone else too...well maybe you aren't sure what your preference is.

[Kathranis]

Being physically or emotionally attracted to a member of the same gender is gay.
Being arroused by or having sex with a member of the same gender is gay.

I'm pretty sure those are the only two definitions of homosexuality.

Are you really 24? By now you should be mature enough to answer this question yourself or realize that it's not a funny question to ask unless maybe you're trying to amuse dumb teenagers.

[Pipboi]

I don't do it because it's uncomfortable, even sleeping in the same bed with another person regardless of sex is uncomfortable. I'm a man and I need room to spread my manliness!

[Deleted]

Yes, it is.