That's right, another soppy, overly dramatic thread!
I started uni last year, met a girl on my course and we instantly hit it off. Towards the end of the year I realised that I'd started developing feelings for her and that I was no longer content being just friends with her. However, she'd just started seeing someone a few months earlier and summer was looming, so I decided not to disclose my feelings in hopes that not seeing her for 3 months would set me straight.
I'm going back to uni in a few weeks and so far the holiday hasn't changed a thing: I'm still obsessed with her - even though I'm keeping myself busy most of the time - and can't seem to move on. Therefore, I've decided to confess my feelings to her, which would hopefully give me some much-needed closure and allow me to move on with my life.
So how do I go about telling her? It would all be incredibly simple if she was single, but she's most likely still in her relationship (I have no way of knowing for sure short of asking her directly). As much as I enjoy her company, I can't stay friends with her because friendship is no longer sufficient for me. I feel I have to tell her instead of simply blanking her as that wouldn't accomplish anything and she'd constantly try to get into contact with me. We're quite close and seeing her constantly while bottling up the feelings would just further imbalance me and turn me into a miserable, angry individual. I've been disguising my feelings quite well so I imagine it would come as a massive shock to her. I'd rather not hurt her but I don't see a way out of this without coming clean - how do I tell her?