I feel for female raiders, I really do. Because there's a small sub-section of female gamers who are terrible at the game, and another small sub-section of female gamers who are bat-shit-insane and cause uberdrama, the rest of the legit female gamers get shoehorned into this stereotype. It can't be easy.
I myself have seen all 3 types of female gamer. I play with 2 of the best female gamers in the world, and each gives me a run for my money. I've also seen female applicants who were simply awful, the typical "ditzy blonde" stereotype. I've also seen other female applicants who, and I shit you not, threatened to SUE THE GUILD LEADER because she transferred to our server and was denied based on skill level. Many LOLs were had that day.