Our guild is not for everyone. Less than 1% of guilds are able to kill content pre nerf. Our fun is not necessarily the fun most people get out of the game.
Fun for us is Taking SS's next to the dead bosses, being top 10 on worldoflog parses, moving up the wowprogress charts, beating our rivals.
We're not the guild to socialize much in gchat/mumble. The reality is some of our personalities clash. But its the mutual drive that we have and understanding of how a team works to get shit done that puts it all together. Its unrealistic to expect everyone to get along.
But regardless of personality differences, there is respect.