About a month ago a friend of mine died in a car accident.
To make it even worse, I had to witness everything. I was driving as a passenger in another car and while he tried to overtake us, he lost control and hit the mountain face right of us. He died on the spot.
My worst problem is not just that I lost a friend. I kind of accepted the sad fact that hes not going to be around anymore. I just cant forget about the pictures I saw. Him losing control of the car, hitting the mountain, getting thrown out of the window, hitting the stones... I saw everything.
I thought that I was strong enough to "shrug it off", but I just cant. Every time I drive my own car during the night, I see the pictures in front of my inner eye. When someone tries to overtake me, I just cant help myself but to hit the brakes and let the guy overtake me as fast as possible...
Until today, I feel some kind of fear when I sit in a car as a passenger. It just feels extremely uncomfortable.
I told myself... man you are a kid of the internet... youve seen worse but in all honesty, I dont think I'll ever forget those pictures. I mean, his head was... not there anymore... Just writing it down makes everything come back.
If anybody was ever in a similar situation, I would really appreciate if he or she could tell me what I can do to handle those memories. Ive already talked to some friends, but they cant really do anything else but listen to what I have to say and nod...
I welcome every help you guys can offer me. Thanks.
Edit: I thought about professional counseling, but I dont know if I can really afford that. Dont they charge you with some horror €/hour?