Lots of people say "you can't tell the difference."
15 years ago people said "The human eye can't see any higher resolution than 1920x1080." which we now realize is A) bullcrap and B) pretty subjective.
Just like there are benefits to extreme resolutions (less jagged edges, therefore less need for Anisotropic filtering and Anti-aliasing, improved color quality because of reduced apparent dithering and blocking) beyond "how many pixelz it is", there are benefits to large framerates. That includes "if it's higher than your refresh rate you won't notice."
That's just not true. When you get used to the extra frames, you notice that even though you can't specifically point out the difference (although you might be able to, my wife bitched at me when we first got married that anti-aliasing and higher frame-rates were pointless and she couldn't tell the difference, now she insists on the highest possible frames and AA because she sees it, now) you'll be able to tell that it looks better somehow. Like the difference between the ipad2 and the retina ipad. You can see it, you can't necessarily just point out "where's the difference?"
But, if you aren't used to it, you probably won't notice the difference at all, so you won't miss it, probably.