24 year old dating 12 year old

[anyaka21]

Right now, extremely creepy, at least from an american standpoint. Hard to agree or disagree from an international one. I will agree that it seems too early for a girl to be emotionally mature enough especially preteen to be truly in love.

Things people have to consider.
1. Are the parents okay with it?
2. If at this point everything is above board and gentlemanly and non-sexual, then there is no reason to prohibit it.
3. If he let's her grow up and helps her mature and find her path in life, then this isn't a bad thing.
4. But yeah, if its comes strange creepy sexual thing, then its gotta stop.

[Osyrus]

this is inappropriate.

love has no age- i agree (i really care for a man who is 34 and I am 24)

but she is a child. he is a mid-20s adult. the span is not the problem for me its the actual current ages. they are thinking two different things, they are at two different stages of their lives.

[Deleted]

That's way too young. When i was in highschool i knew quite a few 17 year olds that had relationships with older guys (23-26 year olds) which seemed somewhat alright... but anything under 17 i find hard to digest.

[Fojos]

If you give a child a pocketful of change and tell them to go buy a candybar, they don't count out the money and get what they need for the candybar, they'll just drop a handful of money on counter.

That sounds more like an infant than a twelve year old. Are all the kids you know retarded, or am I missing something (serious question, and I'm suggesting the real meaning of the word rather than the slang)? I was already very careful and picky with money early in elementary school.

[Deleted]

a 12 year old is not developed enough physically or mentally for a relationship, an almost fully grown man going out/dating (delete where applicable (: ) with what is essentially a child is absolutely revolting. i know if i was with a 12 year old i would get ripped to shreds by my family, friends and employer and im only 19...

[sam86]

Technically speaking ignoring emotions etc that isn't "wrong"
But I must say WTF?

[ghostkitteh]

Is it wrong? Eh, I'm not going to tell someone they can't date somebody x years younger/older than them, but it's creepy. If one of the parties is under 18, and the other is two or more years older than them, I find it creepy, lol.

[Thelxi]

I think it is disgusting for 20something or 30something people to be sexually involved with teenagers. That said, it is kinda a double standard because personally I was completely ready, eager and responsible enough to have sex with older people when I was 14, and I don't regret much and I learned a lot. They always had to be troubled with my age though, else it was kinda creepy.

[Ragelicious]

Its not assault if its by own free will. Its just sex with a minor. Luckily the rest of the western world arent as paranoid as you yanks : p

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I have a 10 year old daughter and when she is 12, if a 24 year old ever tried to look at her the wrong way I would snap his neck. Its nasty. Anyone who even tries to justify this is a pervert in my eyes. Even holding hands and kissing is wrong. My god, what is with people these days. ugh....

Im sure your daughter would prefer you in jail, with that stuck in the 30ies attitude of yours.

[Shmeh]

Not nessecarily, if they're hes into her and shes into him but they're not doing anything untill the appropriate age, he can't be labeled as a pedophile. I had a friend that was 13 who had a boyfriend that was 19, ( y i had weird friends) but technically he should be a pedophile too
though no one sees him as one. i don't know what it is exactly, but even my friends mother found it ok

Her boyfriend was a pedophile, people are fucked for not labeling him one, and her mother doesn't sound like she's fit to be a mother.

[Ragelicious]

I don't know about where you guys are from...but where I'm from that shit will get you 15-20 in prison

Let me guess, your from the place where you need assault riffles to feel secure?, a place where people in 2012 are still debating whatever abortion is alright? If gay people should have rights to get married.

People of your country is almost lacking the same mental developement as the sad places in the middle east.

[Shmeh]

Let me guess, your from the place where you need assault riffles to feel secure?, a place where people in 2012 are still debating whatever abortion is alright? If gay people should have rights to get married.

People of your country is almost lacking the same mental developement as the sad places in the middle east.

Are you fucking kidding me? You're pro adults having sex with kids and YOU of all people are ridiculing people debating abortion and gay rights?

[Deleted]

I like my women like my whisky, 12 years old and full of coke.

Im guessing he can relate to that...

[Alixie]

Silly pedo, kids dont know what romance is.

[Konics]

He looks way younger than 24 and she looks a bit older than 12 so its still really bad but not as bad as I originally thought.

I swear it seems like girls are getting older looking at younger ages every year. I was picking my friends sister up from highschool the other day and I couldnt believe all the girls I was seeing where 18 or under. I thought the school had college classes or something.....I'm only 22 so its not like I wasnt in highschool recently. Either I just didnt take note/realize when I was in highschool or girls are actually getting more mature looking when their younger at an astounding rate lol.

[Carnaby]

Its not right but describing it as creepy :S *FacePalm*

adj , creepier , creepiest
1. informal having or causing a sensation of horror, or fear, as of creatures crawling on the skin.

Really ?

To me the thought of a guy that age talking in a romantic manor to a girl 12 years of age makes my skin crawl, so by the very definition of the word, yes really.

[Ragelicious]

Are you fucking kidding me? You're pro adults having sex with kids and YOU of all people are ridiculing people debating abortion and gay rights?

Where do you see that his having sex with a 12 year old?? Where?? are you so god damn stupid that you cant read?.. When you look out your window, do you see communists and nazi's all over the place? Is that why you have an assault riffle? or is it to make up for the lack of brain?..... Its increadible how you americans always blow things out of poportions. Maybe that got something to do with your crime rates. Ah sorry i forgot your country is so frigging awesome. You almost got free health care, you all most get paid for taking an education, your allmost ranked above frigging Guatamala when it comes to being happy, you almost never sentence inocent people to death, but hey thats okay with your average american mentality. A few wrongs is okay if the majority is right.

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[ninjapaws]

honestly i dont find a problem with this....yes the age difference is huge...but their is a line that i doubt they are crossing the sexual line and now they are out about it, they are most likely being watched like a hawk. so i doubt anything but being together is happening.

that being said, i have friends parents who are 15 years appart, as one friend his father is 59 and his mother is 44.

yes it is very wierd for someone to say he is "in love" with a 12 year old who he has known since she was 8 years old.

[Sam the Wiser]

Looks at poll well hello western world!

[Landin55]

Looks at poll well hello western world!

Glad I live in a world that look down on this weird shit. 2 bucks say if you look hard enough he has child porn. Seriously she probably has no idea what to think or should really.... Guy should try and meet women his age.