Guys are super simple. I'm sure girls ask for advice, but not here.
Men are able to communicate through shared physical interaction. Building something, repairing something, horsing around. They don't need to have eye contact to communicate. Women are verbal communicators, they need direct eye contact. Total focus, exploring many things emotionally.
As a man the only advice I can give on dating is if you as a women are truly interested in the man show some affection toward him.
And no Sex is not a requirement on the first date but men do need some encouragement to pursue the 2nd date so some form of physical interaction is suggested be it kissing/cuddling/handjob/blowjob
(and it's preferable that your the one to make such a move because men are going to think you are not interested at the first sign of rejection)
Oh, one last tip, when it comes to physical interaction I do actually suggest avoiding sex on the first date of any relationship that you wish to see become serious because for a man the chase is part of the fun especially when we know it will end in our favor.
Last edited by skrump; 2012-10-10 at 05:52 PM.
What I meant is, men are also hard to get if you're a woman, or a gay man too. Yes, it's true if a female came on a man and asked him to be her bf, he would probably say yes, atleast, there would be a lot more males that would say yes than females saying yes if a man said that to them.
And I still think it's wrong that a lot of people think that men are simplistic.
Truth is to make a man happy all you need to do is
#1 find out his sexual fantasies then in-act them
#2 Know how to give him a massage
#3 Know when to give him some alone time
#4 Don't be a controlling tyrant "outside the bedroom at least"
#5 Know how to cook
Also, if the thread got locked, which I believe in you that it did, I'm sure it wasn't because the theme was about a gay relationship but, probably, because of people flaming about the whole gay theme? I don't know, and tbh, unless you give me the link of the thread, I wont go look for it and see why it got locked.
misleading , thread title is misleading.
Though it does seem kind of degrading to the women and I am more the type of guy who would rather be degraded by the women so if I wanted anything in my rear I would go for a pegging over a tongue.
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For the record, my avatar image has been "temporary" for years now.
I think men are expected to make all the effort. Heh, well, keep expecting. I ain't chasing nobody.
Edit: Actually I think this is bitterness escaping lol!
Last edited by Dacien; 2012-10-10 at 06:34 PM.
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