1.) I got finished with them all on 1/11... i didnt feel forced, i just did them since they were an active part of the game. Opinion =/= fact.
2.) Low level zones are awesome now due to this. Yes... you get ganked, but its only a little bit. Thats the price to pay for playing a PvP realm. nothing stopping you do it.
3.) I don't PvP so, i couldn't give a shit. But it's always been the same complaints about pvp.
Here's an idea for you... stop subbing, and go play GW2 or some other junk.