View Poll Results: Is it right?

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  • Yes, it sounds about right.

    446 63.90%
  • No, that's too short.

    147 21.06%
  • My cherry's unpopped.

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    ... wow. I'm jealous of any man that can keep it that short. Not even sarcastic now, the shortest I've ever had is still 30 minutes, and I've never reached my 'end'.

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    Quote Originally Posted by buck008 View Post
    It can be fun, actually. I've only ever done so once, so I don't really speak from a volume of experience. It's definitely different than being with someone that you are in a relationship with. Many people find that they can be more uninhibited.

    I can't. It just goes against me. I mean I get why it *feels different* just based on understanding.



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    Quote Originally Posted by Aeluron View Post
    Why would one do that anyways >.>
    For the same reason people jump out of planes. It's exciting to them. I've never had a one-night stand, but if I ever found myself single again it wouldn't be out of the realm of possibility. I doubt it would be anywhere near the best sex I've ever had (the first time you're with someone is never good because neither of you know what the other likes), but it could be interesting.

    In reference to the OP, I'd say that study is about right for the actual penetration part. Less than 3 is rarely enough to get me there, but anything over 15 would probably leave me too sore to enjoy it anyway (slowing down and/or stopping for a minute or so after each bout of "fireworks" to let the extreme sensitivity calm down a bit might extend that, but not by a huge amount).

    Random comment - I'm not going back to find the post and quote it, but someone mentioned larger guys hitting the cervix - if you happen to be a big guy, do NOT do this to your girlfriend unless she tells you she likes it. Feeling like you're getting punched in the gut from the inside is Totally Not Cool.

  4. #344
    Quote Originally Posted by tetrisGOAT View Post
    I've never reached my 'end'.
    ???

    You should see a doctor, not kidding or making fun...

    ---------- Post added 2012-11-12 at 08:28 PM ----------

    Quote Originally Posted by buck008 View Post
    Appearance is a large part of it. Some women think they aren't doing enough. Or that they aren't... up to par, I guess, down below.
    How can a woman fail to be up to par down below? As long as it doesn't stink and it isn't torn up...
    Last edited by Purlina; 2012-11-12 at 08:31 PM.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Purlina View Post
    ???

    You should see a doctor, not kidding or making fun...
    Yeah, probably! But there are psychological backstories playing in.
    Been putting it off for too long already, though.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Purlina View Post
    Can women actually be insecure about their abilities in bed? Unless a women is totally a cold fish, it is usually is enjoyable for men. Well at lest it is for me...

    A few believable moans of pleasure, some moving around, and a couple of words of encouragement / dirty talk is all it takes for me.
    So, so, so, so many girls are insecure about this. I had two girlfriends so far, and both asked me "am I doing something wrong?!" or "I am really bad at this, aint I?" just because I edged too much. I thought they would like it longer, I completely "misunderstood" them. To fix that damage isnt that easy to be honest.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Purlina View Post
    Can women actually be insecure about their abilities in bed?
    You'd be amazed at the things women can find to be insecure about. We worry just as much about our performance as you do, and probably more than you about our appearance. Knowing that you are thoroughly enjoying the situation helps a lot with that kind of stuff. I've met a few guys who think they're supposed to be relatively quiet during sex, control their reactions, etc - screw that. Let her know she's making you happy (through uninhibited reactions during it, not just by saying "Hey that was great" afterward), and her insecurity will fade out.

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    Quote Originally Posted by StayTuned View Post
    So, so, so, so many girls are insecure about this. I had two girlfriends so far, and both asked me "am I doing something wrong?!" or "I am really bad at this, aint I?" just because I edged too much. I thought they would like it longer, I completely "misunderstood" them. To fix that damage isnt that easy to be honest.
    The worst is, "What are you thinking about?" I'm thinking about how good this feels and how beautiful you are, what the hell do you think I'm thinking about? Or maybe I'm not thinking at all!

    Given, I haven't gotten that particular phrase since I was like 21, but I got it with like 3 different girls early in my sexual career. Worst mood-killer ever.
    Well 1, 2, 3, take my hand and come with me
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  9. #349
    Quote Originally Posted by buck008 View Post
    Fair enough. Porn stars are helped by the constant breaks, position changes, and awkward positions for good camera angles anyway.
    Not to mention the sound guy, lighting guy, 2-3 camera men, as well as the producer and director yelling instructions at both parties the entire time. With that much pressure I doubt most men would be able to keep it up the whole time.
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  10. #350
    Quote Originally Posted by Liagala View Post
    You'd be amazed at the things women can find to be insecure about. We worry just as much about our performance as you do, and probably more than you about our appearance. Knowing that you are thoroughly enjoying the situation helps a lot with that kind of stuff. I've met a few guys who think they're supposed to be relatively quiet during sex, control their reactions, etc - screw that. Let her know she's making you happy (through uninhibited reactions during it, not just by saying "Hey that was great" afterward), and her insecurity will fade out.
    My GF complains that I talk too much / get too loud during sex...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Liagala View Post
    You'd be amazed at the things women can find to be insecure about. We worry just as much about our performance as you do, and probably more than you about our appearance. Knowing that you are thoroughly enjoying the situation helps a lot with that kind of stuff. I've met a few guys who think they're supposed to be relatively quiet during sex, control their reactions, etc - screw that. Let her know she's making you happy (through uninhibited reactions during it, not just by saying "Hey that was great" afterward), and her insecurity will fade out.
    It's hard for me to make noise. Too many years of needing to be quiet when I was at my parents house or later in an apartment. It's really hard to let myself go.
    Well 1, 2, 3, take my hand and come with me
    Because you look so fine
    And I really wanna make you mine

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    Quote Originally Posted by Reeve View Post
    The worst is, "What are you thinking about?" I'm thinking about how good this feels and how beautiful you are, what the hell do you think I'm thinking about? Or maybe I'm not thinking at all!

    Given, I haven't gotten that particular phrase since I was like 21, but I got it with like 3 different girls early in my sexual career. Worst mood-killer ever.
    "What are you thinking about?" is a question I never want to hear, regardless of the situation ^^

    Quote Originally Posted by Reeve View Post
    It's hard for me to make noise. Too many years of needing to be quiet when I was at my parents house or later in an apartment. It's really hard to let myself go.
    Absolutely agree. My parents house left a huge stigma on me. I still whisper to her when giving commands. It pointless and bullshit, but I can't help myself.

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    Quote Originally Posted by StayTuned View Post
    "What are you thinking about?" is a question I never want to hear, regardless of the situation ^^
    "How I am late for raid."
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  14. #354
    Quote Originally Posted by StayTuned View Post
    "What are you thinking about?" is a question I never want to hear, regardless of the situation ^^
    The correct answer is: (At all times)

    I am thinking about how much I love you.



    All other answers are wrong! ALWAYS

  15. #355
    Foreplay for me and my partner ranges anywhere from 5 minutes to 2 hours. I prefer making that the "main event" and actual intercourse is usually around 13-20 minutes. It may be too short to most people but having sex 4-5 times a day it is very pleasurable.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Purlina View Post
    The correct answer is: (At all times)

    I am thinking about how much I love you.



    All other answers are wrong! ALWAYS
    I don't really use the "I love you" phrase if I don't mean it. The phrase kinda scares me a bit, honestly.
    Well 1, 2, 3, take my hand and come with me
    Because you look so fine
    And I really wanna make you mine

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    Quote Originally Posted by Purlina View Post
    The correct answer is: (At all times)

    I am thinking about how much I love you.



    All other answers are wrong! ALWAYS
    Never told a girlfriend I love her. But that's another story. I'll keep that in mind once I find the right one

  18. #358
    i didnt know that many wow players can go this far with their sex life on mmo forums,its just crazy and imazing ...haha

  19. #359
    I wouldn't know.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Reeve View Post
    I don't really use the "I love you" phrase if I don't mean it. The phrase kinda scares me a bit, honestly.
    Replace I love you with:

    I am thinking about how much "I care about you".


    It may be just enough to get you off the hook, if your lucky...

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