View Poll Results: Is it right?

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  1. #401
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    That's quite an interesting discovery!

    I think many people would enjoy multiple 7-13 minute intercourse sessions throughout the night as opposed to one long 40-60 minunte session, where the body starts to become numb to the effects of stimulation and satisfaction.

    Foreplay is, of course, a different matter as it builds up to the grand finale; penetration. The act of penetration should be saved for that final stretch of a few minutes when both persons are in there most aroused state. If the foreplay is good enough, the actual sex should be pretty short.

    Damn, now I know how the author of 50 Shades of Grey feels. Just typing about this stuff is arousing.

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    I'll add another thing.
    There are alot of girls who think they have orgasms, but never did.
    And those that do have orgasms, often take longer than 15 minutes to get there.

    So I can imagine if the best sex is within 7-13 minutes, it must only be for men, and girls who don't know what an orgasm is
    Why did you necro a thread?
    Why did you create a new thread? Use the search function and post in existing threads!

  3. #403
    Quote Originally Posted by Hellash View Post
    I'll add another thing.
    There are alot of girls who think they have orgasms, but never did.
    And those that do have orgasms, often take longer than 15 minutes to get there.

    So I can imagine if the best sex is within 7-13 minutes, it must only be for men, and girls who don't know what an orgasm is
    Not exactly true. It depends on the woman really.

    I'd say it's possible for women to have an orgasm within 7mins to 13 mins. It's not impossible.

  4. #404
    well, its pretty much depends on when i did it last, who it's with, and the mood i'm in.

    the first time it took a little under 2 hours. after a few weeks with her it was about 10 minutes, my fastst being a quickie in 3 minutes.

    i've had an x where we did it 17 times over 48 hours, resulting in burns on my private parts.


    with my current girlfriend, 15-20 minutes seems about right. but if we haven't been together for a week or 2, or i've just been partying with the friends and being hit on by a hot girl all night, it can easyly go down to 5-10 minutes.

    but when i'm drunk it usualy lasts an hour+, if i doesn't just give up by then because i simply can't finish.

  5. #405
    Quote Originally Posted by Hellash View Post
    I'll add another thing.
    There are alot of girls who think they have orgasms, but never did.
    And those that do have orgasms, often take longer than 15 minutes to get there.

    So I can imagine if the best sex is within 7-13 minutes, it must only be for men, and girls who don't know what an orgasm is
    That's completely untrue. Most women can get off just as fast or faster then men, if you know their body and know what does it for them. I have quite a few female friends. Most say anything over 15 minutes is just showing off. Or does masturbation just take forever for women?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Hellash View Post
    There are alot of girls who think they have orgasms, but never did.
    ... how? That sort of thing is pretty unmistakable. There is just no possible way to be unsure whether it happened or not.

    Quote Originally Posted by Hellash View Post
    And those that do have orgasms, often take longer than 15 minutes to get there
    The OP is talking about only intercourse, not the foreplay. With no lead-up, it can be impossible to get there. With enough fooling around first, it can be almost instant.

  7. #407
    Quote Originally Posted by Ryuukon View Post
    Less penis waving in this thread please. You can say what you want, but we all know better. Quit trying to be a porn star and be honest for once.
    Yeah, it seems like there are some insecure people here who feel obliged to say they need a lot of time because they're so manly. I don't agree with that, it goes against our very nature. To me, taking too long to finish would be a sign that I wasn't that attracted to the girl because she didn't push the right buttons.

    Also, studies have shown that women moan to stimulate us to finish faster. So yeah, it goes against our instincts to make it 20min or more.
    However, as others have said foreplay can really make a difference. But I think the article meant the actual deed so it sounds about right to me.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Liagala View Post
    ... how? That sort of thing is pretty unmistakable. There is just no possible way to be unsure whether it happened or not.
    Think of it this way. It may be unmistakable if you've actually experienced it. But if you haven't, how could you tell which is which?

  8. #408
    Quote Originally Posted by Hellash View Post
    So I can imagine if the best sex is within 7-13 minutes, it must only be for men, and girls who don't know what an orgasm is
    That's an interesting point, and I'm not saying women don't take longer than men, but I think women have to be very comfortable with the person they're with in order to have an orgasm.

    My wife told me that I was the only guy she had orgasms with during intercourse, prior to me she said she hid under the covers and took care of herself after the guy was finished. I didn't get the sense that this was due to superior technique on my part, but it was more a function of emotional connection.

    After that I asked a few female friends of mine at what age they had their first big O with a guy, one chick was 28, the other was 30.

    It then dawned on me that none of my partners other than my wife may have had an orgasm with me :/

  9. #409
    Quote Originally Posted by Hardstyler01 View Post
    Yeah, it seems like there are some insecure people here who feel obliged to say they need a lot of time because they're so manly. I don't agree with that, it goes against our very nature. To me, taking too long to finish would be a sign that I wasn't that attracted to the girl because she didn't push the right buttons.
    Eh, everyone's different. Sometimes I can finish very quick, but sometimes it's just not happening, at all. Time to just chill and go get a beer or something. Keep in mind, this is with the same person (these days), and I find her absolutely amazing.

  10. #410
    Quote Originally Posted by Hardstyler01 View Post
    Yeah, it seems like there are some insecure people here who feel obliged to say they need a lot of time because they're so manly. I don't agree with that, it goes against our very nature. To me, taking too long to finish would be a sign that I wasn't that attracted to the girl because she didn't push the right buttons.
    I'm the opposite, if I not only like the person but also how she smells, tastes, feels, then I want to take my time and enjoy her.

    On the other hand, if something's not right then I want it over with and her gone ASAP!

  11. #411
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    I've had sex for 2 hours once and it was the best experience of my life. So no, I disagree.

  12. #412
    Seven minutes is a long time. Generally, my arm gets tired well before then

  13. #413
    Quote Originally Posted by Ikarus View Post
    I like sex that lasts a bit longer, I usually don't really feel satisfied until 15 minutes minimum, anything between 15 and 20 is amazing for me. 7 minutes is ridiculously short and people should really try and experiment with new things.
    But the goal of sex is the orgasm. Why would you try and delay it? Sure, the journey is nice, but the destination is after all what it's al about. As long as you both get yours, you're set. Beyond that, time doesn't matter. In my opinion, anyway.

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    Quote Originally Posted by The EagleOwl Mage View Post
    I've had sex for 2 hours once and it was the best experience of my life. So no, I disagree.
    I had sex for 2 hours once and afterwards I felt absolutely battered, my bed was a mess, the room smelled funny for a week and my willy hurt for days. I'd rather have 4 30-minute sessions (including foreplay) spread over a week. But then again I guess I'm not so young anymore.

  14. #414
    Quote Originally Posted by CHNurf View Post
    But the goal of sex is the orgasm.
    I'd say this is doing it wrong. If you treat that as the goal, you're going to enjoy it less.

  15. #415
    Quote Originally Posted by CHNurf View Post
    But the goal of sex is the orgasm.
    If that's your goal then I think spanking your monkey is a far less complicated option.

  16. #416
    Quote Originally Posted by CHNurf View Post
    But the goal of sex is the orgasm.
    I'd say the goal of sex is to have fun. ( aside from the obvious babymaking if you're at that point)

  17. #417
    Quote Originally Posted by CHNurf View Post
    But the goal of sex is the orgasm. Why would you try and delay it? Sure, the journey is nice, but the destination is after all what it's al about. As long as you both get yours, you're set. Beyond that, time doesn't matter. In my opinion, anyway.
    You know, sometimes the journey is way better than the destination.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Majad View Post
    Not exactly true. It depends on the woman really.

    I'd say it's possible for women to have an orgasm within 7mins to 13 mins. It's not impossible.
    Agree. Every person is born differently. Some men can go on and on, while others can't last a minute. Some women will never achieve an orgasm, while others can in a short period of time.

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    Quote Originally Posted by CHNurf View Post
    I had sex for 2 hours once and afterwards I felt absolutely battered, my bed was a mess, the room smelled funny for a week and my willy hurt for days. I'd rather have 4 30-minute sessions (including foreplay) spread over a week. But then again I guess I'm not so young anymore.
    Open a window.

    Most of the 2 hours I had wasn't coitus, It was more like we lost ourselves in each other and when we were done almost 2 hours had passed. Maybe it depends on how much you like the person.

    I did have to sleep for the rest of the day though.

    .....Now I feel awkward for talking about it.
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    7-13 minutes sounds about right. That is of course coming from personal experience.

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