I have a question and I am interested what other people have got to say on this subject.
First of all I am not seeking advice but I am curious how YOU feel on this subject and what you would do.
I will tell you a little story of what happend to me and how would you feel if you had a situation similiar to mine?
My wife was the most beautiful woman I have ever met. Such caring and kind woman and I was the happiest man on earth to be so lucky.
To Have and to Hold, 'Til Death Do Us Part
However death comes to all of us in the end. Unfortunately some sooner than others.
Its now been six years since she passed away and I was certain I would never be able to find nor would I want to.
When she died I felt it was the right thing to do to live by myself for the rest of my life. I felt my heart belonged to her and her only.
And that was a personal choice I made. Its different for everyone
For six years I have not looked upon any women whatsoever in such ways other than a friend.
However today on a completly normal day something interesting happend.
On a normal day at the grocery store I noticed a beautiful women working as a cashier and I found it wierd. Never have i looked on a women in such a way since my wife passed.
But I guess after a while its natural to humans to be attracted to someone else after such a long time.
She was very nice and social to the other customers but when I came up she started to touch her hair, became shy and just smiled and we got some strong eye contact.
It was an awkard situation. Not an ''awkard social moment'' but just awkard becouse after six years I felt attracted to a woman and it wasent very hard to figure out she liked me to.
So thats that but I am not sure what I should do. I still feel obligated to stay faithful to my wife but then again theres this.
So my question is would you be able to love someone else again after your loved on passed away?