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    unrequited love

    I really liked this girl and we were good friends, dated and our relationship lasted about 6 months and after a while she told me that she is not romantically interested in me without giving a reason. I got hurt and tried to forget it but failed. I sent messages on facebook which she did not responded. I sended her another she blocked me. I called her. Hearing my voice she gave it to her boss. After repeated attempts for a closure I heard from her boss an old man told me that he would file harassment charge on me if I tried to contact her. I am totally fuc** up. I feel like a queer. I have lost my peace of mind. What should I do?

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    Go and meet the girl. Try to talk to her, tell her how you feel etc. I think that would make you feel better.

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    Move on dude, you're harrasing her, leave her be.

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    So, she's not responding yet you continue sending messages? Stalker much?
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    Exactly what's been said before. Leave her be and look for someone else. She's clearly not meant for you. Remember in love it's suppose to come from both ways; you have to like her, but she also has to like you.

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    Why does she need to give you a reason? She's saving herself the trouble of listing out all your faults. Get over it.
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    Quote Originally Posted by pal View Post
    I really liked this girl and we were good friends, dated and our relationship lasted about 6 months and after a while she told me that she is not romantically interested in me without giving a reason. I got hurt and tried to forget it but failed. I sent messages on facebook which she did not responded. I sended her another she blocked me. I called her. Hearing my voice she gave it to her boss. After repeated attempts for a closure I heard from her boss an old man told me that he would file harassment charge on me if I tried to contact her. I am totally fuc** up. I feel like a queer. I have lost my peace of mind. What should I do?
    Look for one of the other 4.5 billion girls on the planet?

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    Quote Originally Posted by pal View Post
    I really liked this girl and we were good friends, dated and our relationship lasted about 6 months and after a while she told me that she is not romantically interested in me without giving a reason. I got hurt and tried to forget it but failed. I sent messages on facebook which she did not responded. I sended her another she blocked me. I called her. Hearing my voice she gave it to her boss. After repeated attempts for a closure I heard from her boss an old man told me that he would file harassment charge on me if I tried to contact her. I am totally fuc** up. I feel like a queer. I have lost my peace of mind. What should I do?

    When it comes to this kind of stuff it really is a woman's world - don't get me started on everything else. You have to follow her wishes here, meaning if she wants no communication with you doing what you are doing is only making it worse. A man's feelings are secondary here no one cares that you are sad or hurt. You are expected to suck it up and move on. Contrary to how you feel you are not alone and we've all been there (thank you crazy bitches). You will hurt for a while but it will go away with time, and I know you don't want to hear this, but even striking up another friendly relationship with another girl will help tremendously. Take care, feel better and much luck to you.

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    Being in a somewhat similar situation myself, I definitely feel your pain. It sucks. Life sucks. Everything sucks.. etc.

    Anyway, as for the topic: to be honest with you, it looks like it's time for you to cut your losses and move on man, you already come off as a little creepy and let's face it the signs she's sending are pretty clear. Sorry.

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    Stop goddamn harassing her.
    Why can people be so goddamn stubborn with these things. Move on. Its not like she was your only shot to ever get sex or something. There are gazillion girls on this planet.

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    Nothing you can do thats life, people try things out some work some dont. You dont need closure you just want her back, all there is to know is something or someone changed her mind or maybe she realized its just not what she wanted. In all honesty she doesnt need to give you closure either she told u it wasnt working im guessing and thats prob about as much as your going to get, and honestly calling back to back and attempting on getting in touch with her to fufill ur needs arent doing anything but pushing her further away, and giving any chance u have/had and her missing you out the door. Sorry to be so blunt but its the truth and thats what people need to hear you just have to move on, the best way to do that is 1 of 2 ways let time forget her, or find another girlfriend thats the easiest way to forget about someone cause ur mind will be on someone else. And even if u want her back stalking will do nothing the best way to get her back is to let her see ur happy living your life, or with another girl. Once again sorry to sound harsh just trying to tell u the truth

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    Drop all contact. Delete her number, unfriend and block on Facebook, and don't talk to her again.
    She's not interested. Just forget about her.

    Ps. Sending messages of love via text or Facebook is a terrible, terrible idea. Never do that shit again. Face to face only.

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    Quote Originally Posted by pal View Post
    I really liked this girl and we were good friends, dated and our relationship lasted about 6 months and after a while she told me that she is not romantically interested in me without giving a reason. I got hurt and tried to forget it but failed. I sent messages on facebook which she did not responded. I sended her another she blocked me. I called her. Hearing my voice she gave it to her boss. After repeated attempts for a closure I heard from her boss an old man told me that he would file harassment charge on me if I tried to contact her. I am totally fuc** up. I feel like a queer. I have lost my peace of mind. What should I do?
    I would say that if she's blocked you on facebook, and when you call her at work you end up dealing with her boss, if those are the case I'd say you aren't going to get the 'closure' you seek from her and to move on. Because if you continue to pursue the girl you stand a good chance of having to deal with law enforcement. So ask yourself, Is talking to her worth the restraining order or being arrested?

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    Quote Originally Posted by pal View Post
    I really liked this girl and we were good friends, dated and our relationship lasted about 6 months and after a while she told me that she is not romantically interested in me without giving a reason. I got hurt and tried to forget it but failed. I sent messages on facebook which she did not responded. I sended her another she blocked me. I called her. Hearing my voice she gave it to her boss. After repeated attempts for a closure I heard from her boss an old man told me that he would file harassment charge on me if I tried to contact her. I am totally fuc** up. I feel like a queer. I have lost my peace of mind. What should I do?
    Maybe Its because your an ignorant man who has no sense for the modern times, Go and feel like a "queer" in the 1950's no one is interested in a man from your time thats probely why she left you for your boss.

    I had a guy text and call me for a whole year and It was unbearable so just move on and leave her alone.

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    There are hints of sexuality, close this thread. /sarcasm.

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    Quote Originally Posted by pal View Post
    I really liked this girl and we were good friends, dated and our relationship lasted about 6 months and after a while she told me that she is not romantically interested in me without giving a reason. I got hurt and tried to forget it but failed. I sent messages on facebook which she did not responded. I sended her another she blocked me. I called her. Hearing my voice she gave it to her boss. After repeated attempts for a closure I heard from her boss an old man told me that he would file harassment charge on me if I tried to contact her. I am totally fuc** up. I feel like a queer. I have lost my peace of mind. What should I do?
    Move on. She is not gonna start loving you if you keep pestering her. Don't even try and talk to her anymore.
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    Do her something equally as painful... In this sort of situation eye for an eye is the best solution.

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    Cut her into pieces and wear her skin.

    No but seriously, deal with it, drop contact no matter how bad it feels.
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    Got to be a troll thread. Seriously, people aren't that painfully unaware of their over-bearing nature, surely?

    How can you literally harrass someone to the point of their boss threatening to get a restraining order without something in your brain sending yourself a memo that, perhaps, what you're doing might be wrong, hurtful or threatening.

    Get a grip of yourself.

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    Lol I just read the post. You feel like a queer? Maybe she dumped you because you're not mature enough for her. Which is clearly the issue when you're calling her down despite the fact she's trying to avoid you. Get over it.

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