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    How I Hate...

    ...I have eye contact with girls and talk to them but nothing more comes from it. I know some dude who has several fuckbuddies he can choose from. I am a decent looking guy, always nicely dressed + hair done etc. It's so phucking frustrating I can't seem to have something be more than just talk.

    How should I fix this?

    EDIT: Okay because people didn't seem to catch my drift. I wasn't saying anything about 'just' a fuckbuddy. I was talking about something more than just talk.

    + this is me
    Last edited by Graafaap; 2012-11-20 at 07:45 PM.
    Patch 4.3 Backlash
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    Oh you mean how they are fixing the talent "trees" so that a 2 year old can take the poop out of his diaper, throw it at the screen and have a viable spec?

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    Perhaps if you think of girls almost like they're people, rather than objects that you just have to say the right magic words to unlock, they'll be more interested in you.

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    Increase quality of said talk
    ????
    Profit

    Edit; also what Spectral said. Objectifying is so 16th century.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Whitey View Post
    Increase quality of said talk
    ????
    Profit
    Easier said than done tbh.
    Patch 4.3 Backlash
    Originally Posted by Dashield28
    Oh you mean how they are fixing the talent "trees" so that a 2 year old can take the poop out of his diaper, throw it at the screen and have a viable spec?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Graafaap View Post
    Easier said than done tbh.
    I can absolutely believe you're telling the truth there, based on your OP.

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    So you make eye contact with, you strike up conversations. It seems like all that's left to do is to ask them out. Seriously just ask them out. The worst thing that happens is they say no.
    It is difficult to free fools from the chains they revere.

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    Dont have eye contact with them, make sure your eyes are on every other woman that passes by. Treat them like a dick - definitely don't chase.
    /nice guys finish last

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    So you cry because you have no fuckbuddies? Can't really have much sympathy for you. Prostitution is always an option, you know.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Deadvolcanoes View Post
    So you make eye contact with, you strike up conversations. It seems like all that's left to do is to ask them out. Seriously just ask them out. The worst thing that happens is they say no.
    I know, but I have no clue where to take them. This isn't some American movie where it's all smooth sailing.
    Patch 4.3 Backlash
    Originally Posted by Dashield28
    Oh you mean how they are fixing the talent "trees" so that a 2 year old can take the poop out of his diaper, throw it at the screen and have a viable spec?

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    This "dude" probably has every STD under the sun. Sleeping around is not cool, doesn't make you more of a man, it's actually quite pathetic really. Just because he has several fuck buddies doesn't mean he is getting great sex, nor does it imply these are supermodels he is sleeping with. Find a girl you like, and likes you back, andtake it from there. Don't have this idea that you should be putting it out there, it's overrated and a lonely existance.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Graafaap View Post
    I know, but I have no clue where to take them. This isn't some American movie where it's all smooth sailing.
    If you honestly have no clue where to take a woman on a date, then you might be beyond help.
    It is difficult to free fools from the chains they revere.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Nindoriel View Post
    So you cry because you have no fuckbuddies? Can't really have much sympathy for you. Prostitution is always an option, you know.
    Imo prostitution is cheating, I don't cheat till I'm 25.

    Also Dead, talking like that doesn't help me at all.
    Patch 4.3 Backlash
    Originally Posted by Dashield28
    Oh you mean how they are fixing the talent "trees" so that a 2 year old can take the poop out of his diaper, throw it at the screen and have a viable spec?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Graafaap View Post
    Imo prostitution is cheating, I don't cheat till I'm 25.
    Good luck then.

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    Quote Originally Posted by quikbunny View Post
    This "dude" probably has every STD under the sun.
    Condoms are pretty effective.

    Quote Originally Posted by quikbunny View Post
    Sleeping around is not cool
    It can be pretty enjoyable for awhile, actually.

    Quote Originally Posted by quikbunny View Post
    it's actually quite pathetic really.
    Because?

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    Maybe you're coming off as more friend material than dating material.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Graafaap View Post
    Also Dead, talking like that doesn't help me at all.
    He's right though. If you continue to think, "I have no idea what a woman would enjoy doing", it all comes back to the same root problem - you're just refusing to think of women as actual people.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Celticmoon View Post
    Maybe you're coming off as more friend material than dating material.
    Somehow, I'd wager that this has absolutely nothing to do with the problem. He's literally asking us, "we make eye contact and talk, why aren't we fucking?". Do you think the problem is that he's just too nice?

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    Talking to girls is easy talking to guys is hard -.-

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    Quote Originally Posted by slime View Post
    Dont have eye contact with them, make sure your eyes are on every other woman that passes by. Treat them like a dick - definitely don't chase.
    /nice guys finish last
    This advice is what you don't listen to. Women don't want a man like this.

    -Coming from a woman.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Spectral View Post
    He's right though. If you continue to think, "I have no idea what a woman would enjoy doing", it all comes back to the same root problem - you're just refusing to think of women as actual people.

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    Somehow, I'd wager that this has absolutely nothing to do with the problem. He's literally asking us, "we make eye contact and talk, why aren't we fucking?". Do you think the problem is that he's just too nice?
    I don't really know. He may be coming on too strong and the girls he's talking to are picking up on that. When a guy talks to me (that just wants to get in my pants) I can almost always pick up on it. Most women can tell if the conversation is genuine or just a ploy to get in their pants right away.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Graafaap View Post
    ...I have eye contact with girls and talk to them but nothing more comes from it. I know some dude who has several fuckbuddies he can choose from. I am a decent looking guy, always nicely dressed + hair done etc. It's so phucking frustrating I can't seem to have something be more than just talk.

    How should I fix this?
    OK I'll bite, what do you mean by 'I have eye contact'?

    Looking someone in the face / eyes in normal when talking to them, it shouldn't require any special effort. Plus there are levels of eye contact that go from normal to flirty to serial killer.

    I mean, do you blink? or is the whole conversation a staring contest from you?

    Also this friend of yours with his pick of the women, have you met them? Have you ever seen them in a situation where you'd believe they were more than friends? or did he just point and say 'I do her from time to time'?

    There's so much that's left open by your post that it's a little hard to pick what to fix. For a start where are these girls your talking to? A bar? In the street? Chained to a radiator?

    Context is key my friend when it comes to things like this and there's a lot of background missing from your post.
    "The fact that you don't get it or like it is fine. The fact that you wanna ruin it for everyone else - that's why you're a cocksucker." - Bill Hicks
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    The playerbase has been desiring this for years and when it's finally here, everyone wants to grab a pitchfork. Ridiculous. This community is disgustingly toxic.
    Please send all PM's with a read receipt, that way both you and I will know I'm not reading them....

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mooboy View Post
    OK I'll bite, what do you mean by 'I have eye contact'?

    Looking someone in the face / eyes in normal when talking to them, it shouldn't require any special effort. Plus there are levels of eye contact that go from normal to flirty to serial killer.

    I mean, do you blink? or is the whole conversation a staring contest from you?

    Also this friend of yours with his pick of the women, have you met them? Have you ever seen them in a situation where you'd believe they were more than friends? or did he just point and say 'I do her from time to time'?

    There's so much that's left open by your post that it's a little hard to pick what to fix. For a start where are these girls your talking to? A bar? In the street? Chained to a radiator?

    Context is key my friend when it comes to things like this and there's a lot of background missing from your post.
    Where do people come up with this shit? No, I'm just a normal guy not a fucking maniac. It's @ school. For the same reason I can't seem to swoop in and close the deal I don't go out..
    Patch 4.3 Backlash
    Originally Posted by Dashield28
    Oh you mean how they are fixing the talent "trees" so that a 2 year old can take the poop out of his diaper, throw it at the screen and have a viable spec?

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