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    Quote Originally Posted by skrump View Post
    Rofl What I should of written was that I am myself a little awkward when it comes to trying to start a relationship of any sort and she has caught me checking her out on numerous occasions so a figured she might of gotten the stalker vibe from me.
    Ah...that isn't how it came across at first, but I can understand that.

    What concerns me at this point is that you have reservations about her having sex with other men. That will only get worse the more you get attached to her -- so that doesn't bode well.

    It's my experience (but certainly not the law) that someone who goes into the porn industry usually isn't unscathed from the experience. They can often struggle to have a healthy sex life and relationship outside of the industry because of how they end up viewing sex and how they are treated at the job. People who have more traditional jobs often find that the stresses of the job can affect them outside of work -- I can only imagine how that's even worse for someone whose job is to have sex on camera.

    Even if you can fully get past the sex part (which it doesn't sound like you can) there is a very real chance you'll find she isn't able to have a healthy functioning relationship.

  2. #122
    As the old jungle expression sais

    "you don't shit were you eat"

    Ergo. Do not date a co-worker it only ends up with trouble.

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    Quote Originally Posted by skrump View Post
    That picture doesn't do her justice (neither do the video's) to be honest she looks 10x better face to face or even in personal pictures, that was just the only clothed photo i could find of her taken by the porn industry.

    In fact when I first saw one of the video's I actually told the person who showed it to me that he was full of shit because she looks like she aged 10 years and put on 20 poinds.

    Hell I still wouldn't believe they were the same person if it were not for the fact that she has a rather large scar on her right shoulder and a mole near her right eye neither of which are visible in this picture.
    Well since you watched one of the videos how did you feel about it? Now watch one thinking that "This is my woman" and then ask yourself how you feel about it. There can be a big difference in watching a co-worker that does porn and watching your girlfriend do porn.

  4. #124
    She's way out of your league? What are you? Frankenstein?

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    Quote Originally Posted by skrump View Post
    In truth I could of made the topic much simpler and just asked people if they would have a porn actress as a repeat fuckbuddy and if so would they ever entertain the idea of starting a short or longterm relationship with one.
    I went on a few dates with a (supposedly former) porn star. I was surprised at how normal and nice they were -- however at the end of the day there were a few issues:

    1) I found as much as I wanted to be non judgmental I couldn't completely get past it.
    2) There were a lot of things that didn't add up -- really nice apt, etc. while supposedly being a student. Normally I wouldn't be too suspicious but I ended up (correctly) assuming the "former" part was a lie. Basically the fact they were in porn cast a shadow of doubt and I struggled to trust them.
    3) The sex was surprisingly boring. Possibly not related to the porn, but they were incredibly selfish in bed. My theory is that because they were objectified on set they felt they didn't have to put in effort at home? Not sure, but it was what is was.

    Long story short -- it did not meet expectations and I wouldn't do it again. The reality is never as good as the fantasy. If you want the ego boost or fantasy fulfillment just sleep with her once or twice, but don't go into anything long (or even short) term.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ebildays View Post
    Well since you watched one of the videos how did you feel about it? Now watch one thinking that "This is my woman" and then ask yourself how you feel about it. There can be a big difference in watching a co-worker that does porn and watching your girlfriend do porn.
    Different strokes, different folks. Some people really DO have the capability of separated work from personal life. Granted lots of people couldn't handle it, there are still lots of people who COULD.
    Get a grip man! It's CHEESE!

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    so being in a relationship is shitting, and working is eating?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lenonis View Post
    I went on a few dates with a (supposedly former) porn star. I was surprised at how normal and nice they were -- however at the end of the day there were a few issues:

    1) I found as much as I wanted to be non judgmental I couldn't completely get past it.
    2) There were a lot of things that didn't add up -- really nice apt, etc. while supposedly being a student. Normally I wouldn't be too suspicious but I ended up (correctly) assuming the "former" part was a lie. Basically the fact they were in porn cast a shadow of doubt and I struggled to trust them.
    3) The sex was surprisingly boring. Possibly not related to the porn, but they were incredibly selfish in bed. My theory is that because they were objectified on set they felt they didn't have to put in effort at home? Not sure, but it was what is was.

    Long story short -- it did not meet expectations and I wouldn't do it again. The reality is never as good as the fantasy. If you want the ego boost or fantasy fulfillment just sleep with her once or twice, but don't go into anything long (or even short) term.
    The truth is, sex really is boring compared to porn sex. Porn sex is just that...Porn. It's a caricature of sex. i would imagine most people would be disappointing having sex with a porn star and expecting it to be anything like how she is at work.

    That's not to say you can't have GREAT sex with a porn star. One just has to remember they two acts are only barely related.
    Get a grip man! It's CHEESE!

  9. #129
    Quote Originally Posted by Tazila View Post
    Her face in the newest picture doesn't even look like the same woman... The newest one is lovely, the studio pic.. just no.

    Facial structure seems too different for those two pictures to be the same woman. (Cheeks not defined, lips much thinner, nose bigger, eyes closer together) It's hard to believe that a photoshopped studio picture looks worse than a cell phone facebook profile type pic.


    Edit: There are basic looks that make her look the same. She could have just lost a crap ton of weight that emphasized features. But here's a back to back of the new pic of her and the first pic that he linked.

    She just doesn't look like the same person to me, mainly in the eye shape and nose.

    http://i54.photobucket.com/albums/g8...2o/lolwuts.png
    I agree and that was my exact thought when a friend tried telling me she was doing porn then showed me one of the video's I dunno what the hell that production company was thinking but they uglified her and like I said before if it wasn't for seeing the scar and mole in several of the video's I would still refuse to believe it was her. (Btw the 2nd picture i posted of her is the one she posted at sexyjobs.com)

  10. #130
    As long as you are safe in the assumption that while you are at work she will have a cock in her mouth, ass and vag. Possibly all at once.
    READ and be less Ignorant.

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    Depends how desperate and out of options the guy is. In my case...probably yes.

  12. #132
    Quote Originally Posted by IIamaKing View Post
    As long as you are safe in the assumption that while you are at work she will have a cock in her mouth, ass and vag. Possibly all at once.
    Some dudes get turned on by that. I think those dudes are insane, but OP might not.

  13. #133
    Quote Originally Posted by RICH1471 View Post
    How much are female porn stars paid then? Obviously not enough to live on if she needs to work two jobs, a prostitute would make more money and cut out the middle man, if you pardon the pun.
    From the research i've done she has only been doing porn for a couple of months and the only reputable company she has worked with is realitykings, either way online porn actresses tend to make far less than those who perform for major companies like vivid that produce dvd's and such.

    Either way it doesn't seem like she started doing porn until she was layed off from our current employer though she was rehired shortly before the release of her newest video ( or at least the newest one I was able to find)
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    Quote Originally Posted by skrump View Post
    Added better picture
    http://i152.photobucket.com/albums/s...531/photo1.jpg

    Also for clarification she also now works a Different shift than I do so we might see each other for maybe 10 minutes a day in passing even then we work in different departments of a retail store.

    Ok so the situation is that I work with this girl who for whatever reason has always acted a little awkward toward me and I never could figure out why, but i assumed it was because me and her ex boyfriend are friends.

    Never would of assumed she was sexually attracted to me as I am 8 years older than her and I have a more threatening demeanor about me, hell I would of assumed she was way out of my league, but I know she has seen me checking her out in the past (yes I kind of put off a stalker vibe) which she apparently noticed and enjoyed.

    Anyway I recently found out that for the last couple of months she has been working in the porn industry and though she has kept it very quite she is apparently developing quite the following, anyway when I found out I was in total disbelief and what was even more shocking is that on her web bio she says she is attracted to guys that fit my description.

    Now I won't tell you any of her info or even her screen name but here is a picture of her (fully dressed), some of you might recognize it though seeing as how it is plastered all over the web http://i152.photobucket.com/albums/s...74_004_jpg.jpg

    My question to you is that if you knew this women and you had the option of pursuing her even though she was not only your co-worker but had a side job in the porn industry would you pursue her ?
    You wouldn't be able to handle her being in porn if you have to ask. It takes someone extremely confident to be able to accept that. And to people bashing her because she's in porn, fuck off. Nobody here has the right to judge anyone else.


    Edit: It's also shady going after a friends ex girlfriend fyi.
    Perfect example of why "community" forums are poisonous to the health of a development team. These developers are wasting hundreds of hours trying to stem the tide of incessant bitchery that would never, ever abate so long as these entitled, unfortunate human beings don't get their way.

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    don't bang her

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    Nope. Notta. Never.
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  17. #137
    Depends how much you like her. Think about it and why the hell not if you like her.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Last Starfighter View Post
    You wouldn't be able to handle her being in porn if you have to ask. It takes someone extremely confident to be able to accept that. And to people bashing her because she's in porn, fuck off. Nobody here has the right to judge anyone else.
    Oh please. It's not like porn is accounting where you judge someone for crunching numbers. She's sleeping with other people. It opens up risks for STDs and it's entirely ok for someone to say that it's not acceptable for someone they want to date sleeping with other people.

    It's not an issue of confidence, it's an issue of what you want and expect out of your partner. Some people want and expect monogamy.

    Sheesh.

  19. #139
    Quote Originally Posted by Masterpd85 View Post
    look at the posts.... and knowing the demographic that fits into this forum, and gamers in general, no one here has the right to call anyone ugly or act shallow...

    Half of you here have enough acne on your faces to sand wood down to a smooth finish, enough oil to cook fried chicken, and enough body odor to euthanize an elephant.
    Gamers in general aren't ugly. I am not talking about basement dwellers, but the main demographic of gamers(Also known as casuals I guess).. I consider myself good looking, and even if I am ugly and I am just so self-absorbed that I can't see my own grotesque'ness, she is still not attractive to me. Stop getting offended on others behalf.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Taftvalue View Post
    don't bang her
    What has been seen cannot be unseen...I need some eye bleach now.
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    Politicians put their hand on the BIBLE and swore to uphold the CONSTITUTION. They did not put their hand on the CONSTITUTION and swear to uphold the BIBLE.
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    Except maybe Morgan Freeman. That man could convince God to be an atheist with that voice of his . . .

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