Do you think people even try to get better? I have heard people say they want to get better and offer them help. Guess what? They dont want to get better but just want to bitch about it. My friend GM that always talks of wanting to get better is running his fire mage horribly and i tried helping him but he doesnt want to change so they struggle at 4/16, which he also bitches about. People are lazy and dont want to put any sort of effort into anything pretty much. I play all of the games i play for fun but love the competitive nature of each of them from Wow to BF3. i sucked at BF3 but got better after changing a few things, 10min of checking some things out lol. In my experience every person who I have seen bitching, from being called op in a heroic or lfr, to a random person in a guild i am in on my alt, to each i offered help to and i usually get rage back or no answer, or maybe next time i am on.