How is that first one an insult?
I can sorta see why you would think the 2nd instance is an insult, as I worded in a way where it would seem like that. But seriously, the 1st one doesn't even talk about you in any negative way and doesn't even talk about you at all really other than mentioning how your interaction with others can be misconstrued.
Aaaand here I decide to drop the discussion as there is nothing more I dislike than to argue with you. No offense, but it never ended well in the past.
I was just stating the point that you made earlier that everyone looks at stuff differently, what you don't mean as an offense might be seen as an offense by others.