Originally Posted by
Digglett
Dragon Quest 9 is exactly what you want. Customization is AMAZING, and it really feels like an old school RPG. Granted, you can't really customize your personality, but, the appearance, class direction, and even armor is customizable, and the amount of different sets is pretty impressive. Also, team members are customizable as well in the same way.
One of the best JRPGs I've played, I don't think it gets as much credit as it deserves.
Look no further. DQ9 has both of those.