Thanks to WoWGoneBad's discovery of a bunch of updated old game I have figured out how to salve my aching star heart.
http://www.oldgames.sk/games.php?category=9
Go to page 3.
All the wing commanders / privateer and the X-wing and tie fighter games.
Updated for windows 7.
All credit to WoWGoneBad.
http://www.oldgames.sk/en/
^ English version of the site