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    Facebook, girls and one word replies

    So, it is a known fact that girls never initiate the conversation first, thats ok
    but how the hell do you deal with this?
    me: bla bla bla
    her: haha
    me: bla bla bla
    her: lol
    me: bla bla bla
    her: *insert some stupid variation of haha, lol or a smiley face*
    me: disconnects

    im at a complete loss for words
    and no, she is not disinterested because after i quit messaging her she messages me a day or 2 later "why did you stop talking to me?"
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    I hate to break it to you, but she probably IS disinterested but just likes the attention.

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    Try ending some of your sentences with question mark. Helps.
    Also what he said.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Wilfire View Post
    So, it is a known fact that girls never initiate the conversation first
    You're doing it wrong.

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    So, it is a known fact that girls never initiate the conversation first, thats ok


    No, that isn't okay. That's a pretentious expectation supported by the modern society.

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    You could try being gay bro

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    I do that to people too. You know when I do it? When I don't care about talking with them for much longer. She texted you because she wants attention.

    Not worth it, move on. Think that's the second time I've said that today.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Wilfire View Post
    So, it is a known fact that girls never initiate the conversation first
    Either you converse with a wrong kind of girls or you are simply the wrong kind of guy

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    Quote Originally Posted by Wilfire View Post
    So, it is a known fact that girls never initiate the conversation first, thats ok
    You mean with you?

    im at a complete loss for words
    and no, she is not disinterested because after i quit messaging her she messages me a day or 2 later "why did you stop talking to me?"
    She is very much not interested, but still wonders why you disappeared without a word. Or she was bored.

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    Meh I hate chat conversations, I rather conversate IRL because then they can't pretend to be AFK
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    She's just not into you.

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    Quote Originally Posted by RüneRS View Post
    Meh I hate chat conversations, I rather conversate IRL because then they can't pretend to be AFK
    I love online conversations because I can pretend to be AFK...

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    One word replies = she doesn't give a shit.
    If she actually cared she would have said more than "lol"

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    Yeah, those kind of responses only tell you one thing, she's not interested. As much as you'd like to convince yourself that she has interest - she doesn't. The reason she even bothered to text you back was because she needed attention again, trust me I've had a lot of shallow girls in the past that were exactly that way with me, once it became obvious (Which is pretty early into the conversation) I cut ties with them and found better people to associate myself with and much like your situation, they did text and ask where I went, to which I just didn't respond back.

    If she can't have a discussion with you about what you enjoy talking about, then try talking about something else, maybe something you both like - She gives attention to that then keep at it and try and find more things that you two might both like, if she still doesn't show much attention other than "lol" etc even if you were talking about something she enjoys, then refer to my first sentence, she's not interested.
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    I am a guy and I usually do this sort of thing when I am not interested/busy but want to be polite to the other party. I guess she is the same.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sighz View Post
    One word replies = she doesn't give a shit.
    If she actually cared she would have said more than "lol"
    I doubt that, that specific girl might say that because she doesn't know what to say, or whet else to add. But yeah, if she has other things to do or simply doesn't wants to talk, but wants to be polite, she'll only reply with "lol , true" , etc

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    Quote Originally Posted by N-7 View Post
    I am a guy and I usually do this sort of thing when I am not interested/busy but want to be polite to the other party. I guess she is the same.
    This, pretty much.
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    So, it is a known fact that girls never initiate the conversation first
    Not true.

    thats ok
    No, that's not ok

    but how the hell do you deal with this?
    You find more interesting girls to talk to

    and no, she is not disinterested because after i quit messaging her she messages me a day or 2 later "why did you stop talking to me?"
    She is disinterested. Why don't you ask her the same question? Just ask: "well, you don't talk to me" and watch her go apeshit
    Last edited by Knight Gil; 2012-12-08 at 12:21 PM.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Wilfire View Post
    she is not disinterested because after i quit messaging her she messages me a day or 2 later "why did you stop talking to me?"
    This is so very true -.-

    Honestly reading your example conversation just brought up memories of my ex... blunt women are the worst, not even blunt, just uninspired replies that have no way for you to even reply back. Psst, all the girls who do this manage to text/message another guy for days on end non stop and when asked they tend to respond "well you never say anything interesting", yet they complain when you stop talking... Makes me wanna slap a b*tch, sorry to any woman who are offended by that, but those girls are annoying

    Honestly you should just tell her that she isn't making any input into it there for you stopped messaging her, really that's all that can be done.
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    1. She isn't interested.
    2. She is too stupid to have a normal conversation (doubt it though XD)
    3. She might be busy doing something else, but don't want to seem impolite.
    4. She just doesn't have anything to add to the conversation, maybe because you talked about something utterly boring, or because she finds it offensive or otherwise disinteresting.

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